I'm really unsure how to deal with the situation.
Still living with ex our house is sold and it looks like the sale is about to fall through so I can't move out as he won't do what needs to be done to get the house sold again.
Currently he's sneaking women in to our house (thinks I don’t know) he's sleeping with multiple women one of whom is his ex who is cheating on her boyfriend. Whilst Im tempted to be petty I really Dont care enough for the drama and just want rid of him.
I do occasionally look through his phone just to see what he's saying about me (not justifying it) but he's bitching about me to his sister saying how spiteful i am how I've been buying new underwear (going through my wardrobe) which I have because it makes me happy.
Ultimately making me out to be the bad person although all I've done is hold boundaries I'm not his partner I Dont need to do things for him and he doesn't get to swear at me or about me to our child.
How would you deal with this situation I'm fed up we literally sleep in the same bed with our child in the middle so it disgusts me to think he's bringing women into it. I could buy a new bed but I'd have no wear to put it when I move out as I won't be buying anywhere for 3 months
I'm also fed up with being painted as the bad person when genuinely I just want nothing to do with him