I can safely say that there is absolutely no man from my past that I'd date again. I wouldn't even consider most of them as a friend.
My very first boyfriend aged 18 was a nice man who did nothing wrong, but that was 15 years ago.
Otherwise, I pretty much look back on every man and think 'wtf was I thinking '. I don't know how I ever found them attractive and the thought of being intimate makes me 🤢.
Maybe they think the same about me!
One was an abusive relationship, but the rest were mainly men who 'suddenly' lost interest.
Even with my most recent ex of 4 years, we broke up a few months ago and whilst I still care, I have no desire to go back at all and don't feel attracted to him anymore.
Does anyone else have this? I remember feeling heartbroken about some of these men at some point!