Are there any dentists or dental practice managers that could advise on whether I'm being unreasonable here please?
Backstory...sorry it's a longer one but I'm trying not to drip feed.
I have a certain apprehension about going to the dentist (probably from childhood), but I have been trying to get better. Anyway, I had the last proper checkup in 2018 and was due one in 2020 which was cancelled by the practice due to Covid restrictions. I have been seeing a hygienist at this practise and then at a different private one as I didn't get on with the hygienist at the one this relates to. I have been taking my children every 6 months and at the last visit this week, I thought I'd better get over my fear and make another appointment. There have been no reminders or any communication by the practice about a check up being due or anything else. I was at that point informed that I would have to go private as I haven't been for a check up in 2 years and there is an apparent rule set by the NHS that you have to go every 2 years or they strike you off the NHS patient list. When I queried that they hadn't sent me any reminders or given me notice of any sort they stated that reminders are a goodwill gesture and that it's my responsibility.
I don't have a problem taking that responsibility, but my issue is that I can't find anything on the practice website, their Facebook page, the NHS website or my local ICHB website about this 2 year rule? I'm happy to stick to that, but they're refusing to reinstate me saying that they would lose their NHS contract if they do? I have to doubt that as a friend of mine had the same situation and she managed to speak to the practice manager at the time and was reinstated when she complained. I asked for the practice manager, but I was told I have to complain by email and they would get back to me within 28 days.
Could anyone shed any light on the rules here so I can craft a meaningful email please? I know I should've gone earlier, but i think it's not right to strike someone off the patient list without letting them know what the rules are and without giving them any notice? many thanks in advance!