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Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like

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Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:22

After all these interior design threads this is what I'm imagining everyone on mumsnets homes look like. Just curious if I'm way off because iv never been in a home like this. Maybe if the person is in their 80s. Do people really have bookshelves?

Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
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Calliopespa · 12/02/2024 22:12

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 22:06

I think my minds more blown on how large everyone's houses must be

To be fair some are in the attic . I got a lot of my grandparents books which came boxed and went up there. I do trawl through those boxes for something specific every so often and can honestly recognise practically every spine from when they were on their shelves.

OpalOrchid · 12/02/2024 22:13

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 22:11

I would love to enjoy reading but I just don't seem to have the attention span

You are reading, You are reading MN.

Justifiedcheese · 12/02/2024 22:13

OpalOrchid · 12/02/2024 22:12

Now, now your real snob is showing.

Yes, and?

But it's OK to rag on people who like reading. Sure.

Justifiedcheese · 12/02/2024 22:14

ZebraPensAreLife · 12/02/2024 22:11

Some people like books. Some people like designer handbags. One is not automatically more worthy or more interesting than the other.

Wrong.

And they certainly are to me.

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 22:15

OpalOrchid · 12/02/2024 22:10

Can you imagine choosing friends depending on how many books they have?

🤣🤣🤣

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ZebraPensAreLife · 12/02/2024 22:15

Justifiedcheese · 12/02/2024 22:14

Wrong.

And they certainly are to me.

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How so? It’s simply a matter of personal preference what you spend your money on.

OpalOrchid · 12/02/2024 22:15

Justifiedcheese · 12/02/2024 22:13

Yes, and?

But it's OK to rag on people who like reading. Sure.

I like reading. I don't have to brag about having 10000000 books though.

JanisMoplin · 12/02/2024 22:16

Veggie1965 · 12/02/2024 21:28

Ok serious question here . Why do people keep books that they have read ,particularly fiction? Can understand non fiction,guide,factual books but I personally could never read the same fiction book again. Why keep those books when someone else could enjoy them ,gathering dust and using up space 🤷‍♀️

Because, personally, I reread them. You might as well ask why people have more than one pair of shoes.

The bafflement on this thread that people are different is quite something. As is the distrust and suspicion of reading as a thing only snobs do.

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 22:16

OpalOrchid · 12/02/2024 22:13

You are reading, You are reading MN.

I never said I couldn't read

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1offnamechange · 12/02/2024 22:17

DramaAlpaca · 12/02/2024 22:05

I can't imagine living in a house without books. I think we've got at least one bookshelf in pretty much every room, and the attic has loads more in storage.

I much prefer real books to my Kindle. For me, reading is a tactile, sensory thing as much as an intellectual one. I love the feel of a book, the texture of the pages and even the smell, especially of an old book. DH and our adult DS who still lives at home prefer to read on Kindles, but we all like having books around.

for someone who reads so much you can't have a very active imagination then....
fantasy fiction must utterly overwhelm you if the concept of a bookless house is beyond earthly reckoning....

Calliopespa · 12/02/2024 22:18

OpalOrchid · 12/02/2024 22:07

That makes you the smuggest cleverest person on the whole of MN.

Thank you.

Don’t be silly: some people just accumulate, and don’t want to dispose of, books. I’ve lots from my grandparents I haven’t even read. But it’s everything we have collectively read which to some people - and this is essentially what op was asking - is an important concept to them. Some people collect books.

Justifiedcheese · 12/02/2024 22:19

JanisMoplin · 12/02/2024 22:16

Because, personally, I reread them. You might as well ask why people have more than one pair of shoes.

The bafflement on this thread that people are different is quite something. As is the distrust and suspicion of reading as a thing only snobs do.

Quite.
Although I do get rid periodically. Need the space for more!
But apparently how very dare we. We should do more accessory shopping or we're terrible people 🙄

Stillwaitingfor · 12/02/2024 22:20

Yes, we have lots of bookshelves. We have bookshelves in every room apart from the toilet/bathroom. My house doesn't look like that though...you don't have to be posh to read

Calliopespa · 12/02/2024 22:20

OpalOrchid · 12/02/2024 22:15

I like reading. I don't have to brag about having 10000000 books though.

If you have that many please do brag. Some of us round be genuinely interested. It takes all sorts …

Mimami · 12/02/2024 22:20

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 22:11

I would love to enjoy reading but I just don't seem to have the attention span

Maybe you just haven't found books you enjoy! Some have very short chapters, others have pictures like comics, I think they are called graphic novels. Also many people that struggle with reading but still like stories prefer audiobooks and you can listen to them while driving or doing chores or on the go.

ghostyslovesheets · 12/02/2024 22:21

@Calliopespa exactly - I have a copy of Lady Sings The Blues my grandfather (fabulous communist and lover of blues and jazz) gave me in 1983 - his copy - I treasure it - it's a beautiful story of a difficult life, with the best opening lines, from a man I loved and miss every day.

Justifiedcheese · 12/02/2024 22:21

Stillwaitingfor · 12/02/2024 22:20

Yes, we have lots of bookshelves. We have bookshelves in every room apart from the toilet/bathroom. My house doesn't look like that though...you don't have to be posh to read

I tried bathroom bookshelves but the pages started to curl😃

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 22:21

Mimami · 12/02/2024 22:20

Maybe you just haven't found books you enjoy! Some have very short chapters, others have pictures like comics, I think they are called graphic novels. Also many people that struggle with reading but still like stories prefer audiobooks and you can listen to them while driving or doing chores or on the go.

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I think im going to look into audiobooks and see how I get on

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Twolittleloves · 12/02/2024 22:22

We don't have bookshelves (other than in the kids bedrooms) DH isn't from an academic background and doesn't like reading (he has a handful of books in his bedside drawer but never reads them) I do like books and reading but tends to all be fiction that I either borrow from the library or read once then pass on, other than a handful of parenting books which are also in my bedside table.

WildBear · 12/02/2024 22:22

I'm not a reader of physical books. I mostly just consume information which interests me online. I'm well travelled and educated to a high level. I am very sociable and outgoing, a good listener, have been told I'm very funny, yet, I'm somehow lesser because I don't like to sit with my head in a book in my free time? Is this correct?

For any book lovers who judge themselves to be better, more intelligent human beings because they read books, well just simply, fuck you.

easylikeasundaymorn · 12/02/2024 22:22

AskingQuestionsAgain · 12/02/2024 21:37

A woman on Instagram has a very cool home with bookshelves housing lots of Penguin Classics, a design classic. She has a lot of vintage iconic designer pieces. https://www.instagram.com/christenpears/

It's the kind of home featured in an interiors magazine. Her home looks nothing like the pictures you posted, which are of deeply uncool, unfashionable interiors.

Have a flick through some high-end interiors magazines, I'm sure you'll find plenty of them have bookshelves.

oh god I've just looked at her insta and cringed myself inside out. Nothing wrong with the actual bookshelves but the staged photos of her "reading"!
I can't decide what's more embarrassing, whether she sets up her phone to take multiple shots and then goes back to review them, or whether she actually gets a friend/publicist/partner to take the photo "now darling make sure you wait until I raise the mug just to my mouth, and make an appropriately pensive expression with my carefully angled face before you take the shot.' 'right next one I want the mug to be out of focus but a wistful smile on my face'🤮

Really not helping the overtly proud book collectors=inherent wankery theme going on here (normal book collectors who dgf about what other people do are fine)

Justifiedcheese · 12/02/2024 22:23

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 22:21

I think im going to look into audiobooks and see how I get on

Read really well by an actor or voice actor you like really enhances the experience.

Justifiedcheese · 12/02/2024 22:24

WildBear · 12/02/2024 22:22

I'm not a reader of physical books. I mostly just consume information which interests me online. I'm well travelled and educated to a high level. I am very sociable and outgoing, a good listener, have been told I'm very funny, yet, I'm somehow lesser because I don't like to sit with my head in a book in my free time? Is this correct?

For any book lovers who judge themselves to be better, more intelligent human beings because they read books, well just simply, fuck you.

And the same to those of you who think loving books is snobby or false.

Boomboomshakeshaketheroom · 12/02/2024 22:25

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 22:06

I think my minds more blown on how large everyone's houses must be

You can fit a LOT of books in full height shelves, and they don't take up much space, I think some Ikea ones are only about 20cm deep so you could run them along any wall or hallway without impinging on the room much.

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