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Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like

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Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:22

After all these interior design threads this is what I'm imagining everyone on mumsnets homes look like. Just curious if I'm way off because iv never been in a home like this. Maybe if the person is in their 80s. Do people really have bookshelves?

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BusyMummy001 · 12/02/2024 20:54

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BusyMummy001 · 12/02/2024 20:56

Ignore last post - wrong thread - reported myself!

LostInTheColonies · 12/02/2024 20:57

Lots of bookshelves here 😁

I'm always suspicious of books arranged by colour, though - makes them look like they're only there for show!

SwirlyWhirls · 12/02/2024 20:58

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 15:22

You would all hate it lots of grey. white gloss kitchen, minimalistic. Vertical blinds.

That does sound grim. I can’t realistically call myself working class anymore but I’m from a working class family and background and all of my working class family and fiends also have books and/or other possessions on display. E.g. DVDs, ornaments. Not minimalist.

LadyWiddiothethird · 12/02/2024 20:59

I remember a teacher friend years ago,saying how so many children don’t have any books at home! I was shocked,our house has loads of books in bookcases in the study.A house without books is a grim place.

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 21:00

SwirlyWhirls · 12/02/2024 20:58

That does sound grim. I can’t realistically call myself working class anymore but I’m from a working class family and background and all of my working class family and fiends also have books and/or other possessions on display. E.g. DVDs, ornaments. Not minimalist.

Do they still have dvd players or are they just for display

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xile · 12/02/2024 21:03

Nigella seems to have found a nice balance.

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OvertiredandConfused · 12/02/2024 21:03

We have books in every room of our home and bookcases in most rooms. Reading is my escape and happy place! I buy most books on my Kindle these days, but still love the classics and reference books.

SwirlyWhirls · 12/02/2024 21:04

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 21:00

Do they still have dvd players or are they just for display

Are you joking? Yes, some people still have DVD players…

PosyPrettyToes · 12/02/2024 21:04

My house is a tiny, dirty, messy shithole. But it’s full of books and bookshelves. I could never not have books.

ZebraPensAreLife · 12/02/2024 21:04

xile · 12/02/2024 21:03

Nigella seems to have found a nice balance.

That genuinely makes me feel a bit funny - like that thing when you look at pictures of lots of holes

WerewolfBarMitzvahSpookyScary · 12/02/2024 21:05

porridgeisbae · 12/02/2024 19:48

I don't think people can usually pray away the gay. That's a misrepresentation, maybe someone else said that. But I don't want to derail the thread.

Yeah you did, you called yourself an ex-gay and made a whole thread about it but it got deleted. Now you're here telling people how books are evil or whatever. Honestly I feel sorry for you.

WerewolfBarMitzvahSpookyScary · 12/02/2024 21:07

porridgeisbae · 12/02/2024 19:56

It is traditional to burn them, but I don't have a garden so I just put them in a dumpster. You can't give them away as they'd not be good for other people either.

Fantasy books is maybe taking it a bit far though, unless the books had encouraged her to experiment with the occult. Supposedly if a novel has a practitioner of magick portrayed in a good light, it could effect some people that way.

Traditional? According to what, fascism?

CoffeeLover90 · 12/02/2024 21:07

I'd love to have a room like the second picture, but my home has been taken over with toy cars. I've a large bookcase and DS has a bookcase in his room. I like to read but rarely the same ones over and over so use the library. Probably own 50 books and DS (4) the same.
I've tried reading on a kindle but I prefer the feel of a proper book.
I organise mine by author and date of release, for a pp who mentioned organising by colour, just because of a stupid organising habit.
I don't see books as clutter. They're life for some people. No judgement on you OP, I know many without books or very little of them and it makes no difference to me.

FebruaryHailstones · 12/02/2024 21:11

A bookcase crammed with books in every room here. It's a bit of a dusting nightmare....

Weightwatcher2 · 12/02/2024 21:12

We keep them here. The ladders are out of shot.

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easylikeasundaymorn · 12/02/2024 21:15

CoraPirbright · 12/02/2024 17:42

I find a house with no books/bookshelves deeply odd.

so you would find someone who is poor (but goes to the library every week), or dyslexic (but listens to 3 audiobooks a week), or who has recently migrated here to escape war/terrorism with literally the clothes on their back, or is in a hostel having escaped an abusive relationship deeply odd?
I'd find you deeply judgmental, and deeply unpleasant, tbh.

Epidote · 12/02/2024 21:16

Yes to books and colours. Other than that my first floor may be smaller than those living rooms.

Cheswick · 12/02/2024 21:18

wombat15 · 12/02/2024 17:06

How would your life be different if you didn't have them?

Interesting question. I am from an academic family. In my parents house five walls were covered in books, from floor to ceiling. Classics, history, languages, medicine, engineering, math, physics, belletrictics and sci fi, you name it. It does feel weird without reading, like a hunger, like you forget to brush your teeth (it would not kill you but it would make you feel so uncomfortable). A curiosity at the extreme level.

RampantIvy · 12/02/2024 21:21

Kindle just doesn’t cut it for me. The reading experience isn’t as lovely.

I don't understand comments like this. I am reading a paperback right now, and I don't want to break the spine to keep the book open, but there is no other way to keep it open. I find reading enjoyable regardless of the medium I use to get my reading fix.

Boomboomshakeshaketheroom · 12/02/2024 21:22

Actually my decor isn't that far from what you posted OP - a bit less stuffy/country and more airy/modern, but I do have a wall of bookshelves in the study and a sofa very like the one in the second photo.

Can confirm I'm not 80. Just a bit of a cheapskate, so I've picked up reasonable quality things over the years and kept them, whether they're currently in vogue or not, and mixed them up with inexpensive Ikea bits from where needed.

sunglassesonthetable · 12/02/2024 21:25

My mum is 80. She's given away or donated all her books and only reads on a kindle.
She's an avid reader.

She doesn't do clutter and her home is airy and modern.

We're all different.

Veggie1965 · 12/02/2024 21:28

Ok serious question here . Why do people keep books that they have read ,particularly fiction? Can understand non fiction,guide,factual books but I personally could never read the same fiction book again. Why keep those books when someone else could enjoy them ,gathering dust and using up space 🤷‍♀️

JudgeJ · 12/02/2024 21:29

*t's not just the books that makes it look like the home of an 80 year old its the clutter the mismatched furniture'

A far preferable look to the sterile, laboratory-like look that's apparently popular.

LivelyBlake · 12/02/2024 21:30

This is my dream bookshelf. A Vitsoe. Maybe one day...

Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like