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Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like

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Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:22

After all these interior design threads this is what I'm imagining everyone on mumsnets homes look like. Just curious if I'm way off because iv never been in a home like this. Maybe if the person is in their 80s. Do people really have bookshelves?

Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
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nocoolnamesleft · 12/02/2024 19:05

Nothing like as smart as that, but yes, my house is primarily decorated with bookshelves full of books.

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 19:05

Tinseltiss · 12/02/2024 18:56

im not a reader I had adhd and can not concentrate on books how my teachers picked it up in primary school however how do you have children and not a bookshelf

Yes they have books and they have shelves in their bedroom so on occasion when their rooms aren't destroyed. Yes you could call it a book shelf the odd one makes it's way on there

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Fitzbillie · 12/02/2024 19:05

Lots of books, lots of colour, lots of clutter.

You would hate it, OP.

Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
Nightblindness · 12/02/2024 19:08

Bookshelves in literally every room of our house, including the bathroom. Shock.

What can I say? We read books.

FenellaBestwick · 12/02/2024 19:08

I have bespoke bookshelves exactly like your picture. Floor to ceiling so I could fit everything in and the odd plant/picture alongside too.

SashaRose · 12/02/2024 19:10

Ha I know what you mean, was trying to work out what the average mumsnetters house looked like from the other threads and how stylish they really looked 😂

Apollo365 · 12/02/2024 19:11

No that amount of stuff makes me feel panicky

Mumsanetta · 12/02/2024 19:12

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:29

I'm just really struggling to envisage what kinds of homes people have as nobody seems to like anything except bookshelves, plants and lots of colour

Everything I hate! I’m a huge reader but I now limit myself and DH to two shelves each on a bookshelf and our bedside tables. DD has no limit as she’s only 5 and has tons of books in her room. Rest of my house is void of colour and plants, very much minimalist. Maximalism gives me a headache.

EllaPaella · 12/02/2024 19:12

The rug/carpet in the first photo is hideous.
I actually quite like photo two 🤣

VampireWeekday · 12/02/2024 19:13

My house is very cluttered but it doesn't bother me. It's just different preferences isn't it? I like my books where I can easily reach them.

crumblingschools · 12/02/2024 19:13

Some of my happiest childhood memories are of browsing in bookshops. My DM used to leave me in the book section of WH Smith whist she went off and did her shopping! I sometimes had finished the book she bought me by the time she had put all the shopping away!

There was a bookshop in my childhood town which was in an old building which was all different rooms, on different levels with creaking staircases. My idea of heaven. It then moved premises to a modern box shaped shop, just wasn’t the same

AsTreesWalking · 12/02/2024 19:13

Keeping books is not hoarding!
I wish I had bookshelves as nice as those...
3000+ books in my house, bookshelves in every room, on the landing, in the hall.
I use a kindle as well.
Desperately struggling to de-book [a bit] before our retirement downsize!

IloveAslan · 12/02/2024 19:14

My house doesn't look quite like that, but I've had bookshelves since I was quite young. Not to mention the ones in boxes, and cupboards.

How insulting to think that only the over 80s would have them!

EllaPaella · 12/02/2024 19:14

And I have bookshelves- but not as many as these pictures. I would love some custom built ones though, I have loads of books. Most of them get donated after reading and only the absolute favourites make it to the permanent book shelf!

GalileoHumpkins · 12/02/2024 19:14

5thCommandment · 12/02/2024 17:08

"Not really a reader". *Oh OP...
*
I've never understood this mindset. Genuinely sad for you on this.

Gently, reading is a gift. For pleasure but more so education.

I read every day, usually around my work subject field, to be as up to speed as possible. Knowledge really is power. I learn stuff, apply it at work, teach the staff, get recognised as a fundamentally important staff member and wages just go up up up.

Your call, but you're just letting yourself down otherwise. I'm on 142k now at 39yrs old and hungry for more. Reading is absolutely key to that success.

I really think a thirst for knowledge and reading needs promoting from a young age and this is where private schooling makes the difference.

Then there's reading for pleasure - I prefer the papers, or articles in my field, or random stuff like how to germinate avocados - it meant we could do it with the kids and now they're growing plants. Reading isn't just books, I actually can't stand novels, but reading... so important....

That's the wankiest thing I've ever read.

spriots · 12/02/2024 19:15

We mostly read on kindle now and have made an effort to get rid of books we don't really need but still have plenty of bookcases and books. Mainly our books fall into one of those categories:

Out of print or difficult to obtain books we reread
Books we are sentimentally attached to
Cookbooks
Children's books
OS maps/guidebooks

We also use our bookcases for other things like boardgames, displaying Lego models etc

I don't think of books on bookcases as "clutter" or as "showing off" - that's weird to me. But I also wouldn't judge someone for not having books on bookcases in their living room - that is also weird to me

AsTreesWalking · 12/02/2024 19:15

Nightblindness · 12/02/2024 19:08

Bookshelves in literally every room of our house, including the bathroom. Shock.

What can I say? We read books.

@Nightblindness, you are my people!

biscuitnut · 12/02/2024 19:18

I have always had book shelves. One of my most treasured possessions as a child was my own bookcase full of my own books. I have got a kindle now and have let a lot of my books go to charity but I still have two bookcases. Ridiculous really I have read them all but I might want to read them again and some of them have sentimental meaning.

SeasideJane · 12/02/2024 19:19

OP, thank you. You've really amused me and rattled some cages here! I'm chuckling. Please post again! You're very sharp. Very refreshing.

BusyMummy001 · 12/02/2024 19:19

SOBplus · 12/02/2024 18:24

I don't think those pictures look remotely like american rooms 🤔

Well, they look nothing like any uk lounges of any of my bookish friends either. Only seen rooms like this in hotels…

Point is, though, that 99% of MNers’ homes do not look like this.

Darklingthrush123 · 12/02/2024 19:19

Yes mine looks just like that. I’ve got loads of books. But that happens if you do an arts degree and marry someone who did an arts degree in a pre digital time. Plus I’ve got the oka cushions too

effoffwind · 12/02/2024 19:21

I have no bookshelves at all

Read my kindle every single day

Mirabai · 12/02/2024 19:21

The one on the right looks quite like my sitting room, except mine’s bigger and there are more books..

I don’t have books on the door, partly because I didn’t think of it.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 12/02/2024 19:21

BusyMummy001 · 12/02/2024 18:21

Yep - I have a study/library with about 2000 books. But I’ve a BA and MA in English, BSc in pychology and am doing a phd in creative writing, so books are seriously my thing… My teens also have shelves full of books in their rooms too, mainly YA, manga and graphic novels though.

But my house does not look as American/dated as the images above though!

What exactly is ‘American’ about those images? Am I missing something?
And ‘dated’??

AngelinaFibres · 12/02/2024 19:21

LaChienneDesFromages · 12/02/2024 14:28

Mine does look very like the picture on the right.

We have lots of bookshelves, squishy sofas and lamps.

This.