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Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like

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Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:22

After all these interior design threads this is what I'm imagining everyone on mumsnets homes look like. Just curious if I'm way off because iv never been in a home like this. Maybe if the person is in their 80s. Do people really have bookshelves?

Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
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Pollllo · 12/02/2024 17:35

I have bookshelves (and a dvd one) but my house doesn’t look like that, sadly!

Kendodd · 12/02/2024 17:35

Actually, that does look a lot like my house 😳

JanisMoplin · 12/02/2024 17:35

Sophie Kinsella is evil. Now I have heard it all. If pp is being serious... hard to tell on MN these days.

AllTheChaos · 12/02/2024 17:36

ThirtyThrillionThreeTrees · 12/02/2024 17:29

I don't have a bookshelf.

I tend to buy 3 books at a time, kept on or in the nightstand.

Once the 3 are finished, I give them to someone else I think might enjoy them or the charity shop I pass walking to work.

I think the only book I've read twice is To Kill a Mockingbird, once in school & once as an adult. I don't understand keeping them.

I keep the ones I know I’m going to reread, or some that are special (like a couple that are full of my dad’s handwritten notes and drawings, that I found when I was clearing his house after he died). Otherwise I pass them on.

AllTheChaos · 12/02/2024 17:37

But I reread a lot of them. Maybe because I have a terrible memory?!

Geripremi · 12/02/2024 17:38
  • What do you do with your books JaneJeffer ? *Charities don't want them, and family etc all read different genres.
dimllaishebiaith · 12/02/2024 17:38

JanisMoplin · 12/02/2024 17:35

Sophie Kinsella is evil. Now I have heard it all. If pp is being serious... hard to tell on MN these days.

I recognise that username, let's just say that's not one of the weirdest things they have said and tried to justify with religion 🤦‍♀️

Deargodletitgo · 12/02/2024 17:38

Sort of looks like my house tbf, I have book cases in my living room and bedroom, as do the children. White walls, lots of colour and art.

I don't understand people who don't have books around, although I do use a kindle. There's something about being able to sit down and curl up with a non fiction or reference guide, let alone a novel.

ItsallIeverwanted · 12/02/2024 17:39

I don't have as many books as you would think I would, given my job (academic). I've got rid a lot of one-time read books to charity and I use my Kindle a lot, but still have a few piles of books about, things I'll read more than once, or got given, or I think the kids might like in the future. I'm not a floor to ceiling bookcase type of person but I love going round people's houses and nosying through their books.

For a good laugh, I used to follow 'Bookcase Credibility' on Twitter, I don't think they Tweet anymore.

Oneofthesurvivors · 12/02/2024 17:39

JanisMoplin · 12/02/2024 17:35

Sophie Kinsella is evil. Now I have heard it all. If pp is being serious... hard to tell on MN these days.

Sounds like someone who has recently become involved with an evangelical church. Very unhealthy.

RampantIvy · 12/02/2024 17:40

Why do some posters get all morally superior about owning and showing off how many books they have on threads like these?

I love reading, but does it really matter whether it is a physical book or an ereader?

I have both BTW, but simply don't have room for the acres of bookshelves that some of the show offs posters have.

BobnLen · 12/02/2024 17:40

DH has loads of books, some are very old, they annoy me sometimes, I have a few books, about 2 shelves of a Billy bookcase, which are dwarfed by DH's.

Goatymum · 12/02/2024 17:41

Huh? I wish I had more bookshelves tbh as I end up giving some away. I mainly read on kindle now, if I didn’t we’d be overrun!
I have a bookcase in an alcove and a cabinet thing that houses some hardbacks.
I’m way off 80 😆

CoraPirbright · 12/02/2024 17:42

I find a house with no books/bookshelves deeply odd.

cardibach · 12/02/2024 17:42

Floralnomad · 12/02/2024 17:25

We have a bookshelf in the office and a bookshelf in my husbands den , I prefer my lounge to be clutter free aside from the dogs toys and bone collection .

Books aren’t clutter. Particularly not if tidily on a bookshelf.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 12/02/2024 17:42

porridgeisbae · 12/02/2024 17:33

Some more extreme things such as occult texts, but also my beloved Chick Lit such as Sophie Kinsella, which has the occasional suggestion of premarital sex, and some feminist/progressive stuff like The Lesbian Heresy by Sheila Jeffreys. Grin

Best be careful with those Bibles then, as you don't want to know what some of them get up to in there, even when they apparently even have the approval of the Big Guy.

Famfirst · 12/02/2024 17:42

Oh my goodness no! 😄 I've got loads of books which I love but I've been through the stage of having shelves and bookcases and I have absolutely hated them all and the dust they can gather. I'm far from a neat freak, but they just do my head in. I've converted a reasonably sized cupboard so I can have all my books safe, sound and on hand and somewhere where I can just look at them (💞) without having them on shelves wherever I turn.

antipodeansun · 12/02/2024 17:43

Books, board games, art.. I would hate to live in an all grey/monochrome interior, it would feel boring and depressing. And "mismatched" furniture tells a story! A Chinese chest we got from one family side. Dining chairs I absolutely loved and paid too much for when I had very little money. Nana's piano used by generations of children. And, it is not that hard to keep it dust free especially as children grow and can tidy their bedrooms.
(And btw my 14 year-old buys - and then often resells- loads of books and has two bookshelves in her room - also gets books from library or friends; and 11 year old boy is pretty much the same)

ThirtyThrillionThreeTrees · 12/02/2024 17:43

Have the idea of free libraries or whatever they used to call them died out.

We used to have one a work, i.e a bookshelf in the canteen. If you donated one, you could take one. Never policed or anything but worked well.

HouseInTheMiddle · 12/02/2024 17:43

Oh good grief my house has much higher ceilings for all the books 🤣
Its not clutter either, its maximalism.
Mis-matched furniture, done intentionally.

JaneJeffer · 12/02/2024 17:44

Geripremi · 12/02/2024 17:38

  • What do you do with your books JaneJeffer ? *Charities don't want them, and family etc all read different genres.

Charity shops still take them here.

Mary28 · 12/02/2024 17:45

Our house is full of books. You'd need to take all those books out though and put them all back sideways and backwards and and stacked in different uglier directions to get a closer idea of what my house looks like.

wildernesssw · 12/02/2024 17:45

Yes to the books. No to the tidiness and general co-ordinated-ness

1990thatsme · 12/02/2024 17:46

My house looks a lot like the second photo. Except I have more books. Many more books.

I am not 80, I am 33.

Most people I know have bookshelves full of books.

ElaineMBenes · 12/02/2024 17:46

Do people really have bookshelves?.

Yes! And I'm constantly trying to find more ways to fit more bookshelves in my house.