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Cash in hand?

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scotscorner · 11/02/2024 15:28

We have recently got a new cleaner and she has been very clear about cash in hand only (first time we’ve met her). The old ones were very professional; had invoices and clearly trying to run it as a proper business - though same price!

It got me thinking about how I feel about cash in hand. Obviously it doesn’t absolutely mean that someone is failing to declare income but it’s an indicator. Interested in views - does ‘cash in hand’ put you off hiring a tradesperson / self-employed person or do you think it’s none of your business?

YANBU - it would put me off
YABU - it’s none of your business

OP posts:
ilovesooty · 11/02/2024 18:27

Missamyp · 11/02/2024 18:19

Cash is guaranteed payment.
Some clients seem to think payment is optional or they'll make the transaction when it's convenient for them.
Cash pre or post-clean sorts the wheat from the chaff.

If your terms are 24 hours in advance or no service that cuts out the non payment issue.

passiveconstellation · 11/02/2024 18:31

Zanatdy · 11/02/2024 17:25

I pay my cleaner via a pay app (she’s my friend) so she doesn’t pay tax on it. I am a higher rate tax payer but happy for her to avoid a small amount of tax if she can as she doesn’t earn a great deal and is trying to save for a retirement pot, she does a great job and brings lots of treats for my dog, who adores her

That's evasion (crime) not avoidance (legal).

Comedycook · 11/02/2024 18:32

passiveconstellation · 11/02/2024 18:31

That's evasion (crime) not avoidance (legal).

Yes tax avoidance (legal) is much easier for rich people to access . Poor people are more likely to evade.

Charlie2121 · 11/02/2024 18:39

Comedycook · 11/02/2024 18:26

So if you're PAYE on a large salary, I presume you pay top rate tax...40 or 45%?

Isn't it funny how, according to the newspapers, rishi sunak paid 23% tax on his £2million+ income. I mean all legally obviously. But still. If he paid 45% tax rate, I highly doubt he'd see a big deterioration in his living standards.

I suggest you get more angry about that than a cleaner pocketing a few quid.

I pay 45% marginal rate as does Sunak for his PAYE earnings. In fact I earn more than Sunak does if you just count his MP and PM salaries. He will pay exactly the same rate as I do for that portion of his income.

However the bulk of his income was achieved through capital gains rather than employment and these attract a lower tax rate as they would for all of us.

He’s had no special treatment.

Merryoldgoat · 11/02/2024 18:42

I couldn’t give a fuck whether or not my cleaner declares her money.

She has a PAYE job, young children (one chronically ill), and is financially struggling. If me and her other couple of clients can make a hard life a bit easier then good.

Comedycook · 11/02/2024 18:42

Charlie2121 · 11/02/2024 18:39

I pay 45% marginal rate as does Sunak for his PAYE earnings. In fact I earn more than Sunak does if you just count his MP and PM salaries. He will pay exactly the same rate as I do for that portion of his income.

However the bulk of his income was achieved through capital gains rather than employment and these attract a lower tax rate as they would for all of us.

He’s had no special treatment.

I don't think he has had any special treatment.

The tax system is just inherently unfair.

QuestionableMouse · 11/02/2024 18:45

I get paid cash in hand but everything is done properly - it's just the lady I work for isn't goot with tech and has recently been diagnosed with dementia so paying cash and writing it down in her book is the easiest way for both of us. She can check she's paid me and how much, and it means we have to go out at least once a week (which is a massive boost to her MH) to get the money.

Fizbosshoes · 11/02/2024 18:45

I'm not of the opinion that cash always means off the books, but MN in general has slight double standards about it
Tradespeople asking for cash = definitely dodgy, avoiding tax
Cleaner asking for cash - meh, doesn't bother me!

Trinity65 · 11/02/2024 18:46

MariaLuna · 11/02/2024 17:49

Cash in hand is one of the reasons the NHS is failing. Yes, I know it's the government too.

Basically you are paying money to the black market. Drugs, etc.

😂
Oh Dear

Charlie2121 · 11/02/2024 18:47

Merryoldgoat · 11/02/2024 18:42

I couldn’t give a fuck whether or not my cleaner declares her money.

She has a PAYE job, young children (one chronically ill), and is financially struggling. If me and her other couple of clients can make a hard life a bit easier then good.

Why not just pay her an amount to cover the tax as well as the agreed rate for the job then instead of committing fraud?

Missamyp · 11/02/2024 18:48

ilovesooty · 11/02/2024 18:27

If your terms are 24 hours in advance or no service that cuts out the non payment issue.

No service is good if there is no payment. It is not possible for cleaners or small businesses to replace the income lost due to unpaid bills or late cancellations. Larger companies have credit controllers to ensure timely payments (I perform this role for DP's business).
When agreeing to use a service, people should pay their bills according to the terms and conditions laid out either verbally or written. In this case, the terms are cash. If the customer does not agree with these terms, they are free to go elsewhere.

scotscorner · 11/02/2024 18:49

DistinguishedSocialCommenator · 11/02/2024 15:43

Nothing wrong with it - I'm certain you are not paying loads for the cleaner so visits to cash machines and takig our 250 quid is no big deal

We are old school and like to keep in the region of 1500 quid in cash at home.

it soon goes down and we have to top up

How much do you pay and is it per hour or tasks set and approx where in England do you like - We are thiking of getting someone to do a few ironing bits, hoover the staris and landing carpets as the reast of the house is real wood, and sweep the front drive and garden every couple of weeks. However, its having a stranger in the hose again that worries us

£20 per hour, North (Yorkshire) and I don’t mind having someone in the house. We don’t have too much worth stealing! Just could do with a hand given floofy dog, baby, full time job and a husband who’s away with work quite often 🙂

Asked for some tasks specifically that I know I am bad for/need done a lot (vacuuming, bed changing, bathroom deep clean) and otherwise happy to leave to their discretion .

OP posts:
AhNowTed · 11/02/2024 18:50

I couldn't care less if my cleaner, who works in a care home on minimum wage, earns a bit extra once every 2 weeks cleaning.

Jesus she's hardly banking in the Cayman's.

Why is it that folks begrudge the poor, but billions evaded goes with barely a mention.

Wellhellooooodear · 11/02/2024 18:53

For a big job which was done by a tradesman no as you won't have any comeback if anything goes wrong. For a cleaner I couldn't care less if they weren't declaring all their earnings. The only thing that would put me off is remembering to get cash out to pay them.

Wellhellooooodear · 11/02/2024 18:54

AhNowTed · 11/02/2024 18:50

I couldn't care less if my cleaner, who works in a care home on minimum wage, earns a bit extra once every 2 weeks cleaning.

Jesus she's hardly banking in the Cayman's.

Why is it that folks begrudge the poor, but billions evaded goes with barely a mention.

Exactly

ilovesooty · 11/02/2024 18:54

Missamyp · 11/02/2024 18:48

No service is good if there is no payment. It is not possible for cleaners or small businesses to replace the income lost due to unpaid bills or late cancellations. Larger companies have credit controllers to ensure timely payments (I perform this role for DP's business).
When agreeing to use a service, people should pay their bills according to the terms and conditions laid out either verbally or written. In this case, the terms are cash. If the customer does not agree with these terms, they are free to go elsewhere.

I don't dispute that. I'm just pointing out that if my clients don't pay in advance in accordance with my terms and conditions the service doesn't happen, which is why I pay my cleaner in the same way so that she doesn't have to ask me for payment.

lifebeginsaftercoffee · 11/02/2024 18:55

ilovesooty · 11/02/2024 18:27

If your terms are 24 hours in advance or no service that cuts out the non payment issue.

All that means is that I either waste my evening chasing payment for the following day, or they don't pay me and I lose out completely (no payment, no work and no time to find a replacement client for that slot).

Wellhellooooodear · 11/02/2024 18:58

Charlie2121 · 11/02/2024 18:06

Some fraud is OK is certainly a bold stance to take.

Is some violence also OK? What about low level sexual assault? Do you also support that?

Get a grip.

ilovesooty · 11/02/2024 18:59

lifebeginsaftercoffee · 11/02/2024 18:55

All that means is that I either waste my evening chasing payment for the following day, or they don't pay me and I lose out completely (no payment, no work and no time to find a replacement client for that slot).

I suppose it depends on the nature of the business. New clients have to pay on booking or I don't hold the slot.

Veggie1965 · 11/02/2024 19:00

OriginalUsername2 · 11/02/2024 18:13

I lean more this way. Overall, people on lower incomes are just trying to get by in an unfair system.

Yes agree! If £20 cash pays for the cleaner to get to Dentist,decent bottle wine, school shoes etc then absolutely yes .

ilovesooty · 11/02/2024 19:00

Oh and I give my cleaner a cash bonus at Christmas. That's a gift.

Wellhellooooodear · 11/02/2024 19:03

MariaLuna · 11/02/2024 17:49

Cash in hand is one of the reasons the NHS is failing. Yes, I know it's the government too.

Basically you are paying money to the black market. Drugs, etc.

🤣 I have no words

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 11/02/2024 19:03

BibbleandSqwauk · 11/02/2024 15:29

Something like a cleaner it's fine but if it was a tradesperson who I was paying hundreds of pounds too then I'd want to be sure it was a legit business with liability insurance.

Why fine for a cleaner? She should be paying tax if appropriate and not potentially scamming benefits?
If she stole from the OP (also a crime) would that also be ok?

lifebeginsaftercoffee · 11/02/2024 19:07

ilovesooty · 11/02/2024 18:59

I suppose it depends on the nature of the business. New clients have to pay on booking or I don't hold the slot.

I'm a dog walker with a lot of ad-hoc clients whose bookings change each week depending on their shifts, so it would be a real pain to try and keep track of loads of advance payments everyday.

For example, tomorrow I have 16 animals booked in but they're all on different schedules and the owners all owe different amounts of money.

One daily Monday-Friday client with three dogs.
One client who is normally three days a week, but only needs me once next week due to the holidays.
One client who is normally a daily client, but again only needs me once next week due to half term.
One three day a week dog whose days change regularly depending on shifts.
Two pet-sit dogs who I don't normally look after at all, plus two cats from the same household.
Two dogs who get visits twice a week, but the days vary depending on shifts.
Two ad-hoc dogs who have one set day a week and other random days depending on shifts and my availabilty.

That's a LOT of payments to have to chase on a daily basis.

BoobyDazzler · 11/02/2024 19:09

I’m happy to pay cash, including for trades people.