@Medstudent12 and I note that you were very kind to me on another thread. However, my last experience of A&E was dire. I arrived after being kept waiting 2.5 hours fir an ambulance in the rain after a very bad fall. My wrist was very badly broken and I had a broken vertebra.
The ambulance crew gave me morphine thankfully. We arrived at an A&E dept with no facility for surgery, no consultant oversight and no orthopaedic expertise.
We heard nursing staff yell at the ambulance crew because they hadn't told them they were waiting. They were standing in front of the nurse fir 10/15 minutes who was chatting. We also saw and heard reception staff lay into a patient who politely inquired about waits. I was fitted with a sling by a nurse who could not speak adequate English and then wheeled to sit facing all the other patients ts under a TV on full blast. I asked to be moved and was told no, I asked for the TV to be turned down and they said they couldn't find the remote. Funnily when reception went home five hours later a patient went behind the desk to find the remote and put the TV back on. I waited for 5.5 hours with the sprained ankles and cut fingers.
When I finally went through to another room, after I flagged down a nurse, her first words in an accusatory tone were "what have you done with your wristband, you're not supposed to take them off" I hadn't been given one. We were then shown through to a much quieter waiting area and all the Dr's and nurses were at a desk chatting about their holidays and cake. The nurse told my husband to sit at the front, he said he would stay next to me. Rinse and repeat until he raised his voice at which point the nurse knelt down to my level and rolled her eyes at me.
I was sent through to see a Dr. An F2 who was unspeakably rude and conducted a frailty assessment as though I did not have capacity. Starting it with "you're over 60, I'll assume you are retired." She refused to take my concerns about my back seriously arguing that I couldn't have an XRay because I had to be mindful of the risks of radiation and telling me I had to trust her because she'd been to medical school. Only when I said "fine, but please record in my notes that I requested a back XRay did she relent and allow it. I have severe osteoporosis and had broken the L1 previously. The pain was exactly the same. She then tipped herself by telling me there was only sign of an old break. Six weeks later an MRI confirmed the T12 had broken that day.
Eventually I was taken to resuss to have my wrist manipulated. The junior Dr there was irritated that my rings were still on. They had to be cut off and should have been cut off when I arrived. I was told my wrist would be manipulated using gas & air. They were adamant I could have nothing else. Gas & Air makes me feel sick and does nothing for pain for me. Eventually they agreed to do it with conscious sedation. I discovered later that nice guidelines say that dorsally displaced wrist fractures should not be manipulated with G&A alone.
We left the hospital twelve hours later during which time I wasn't offered so much as a cup of tea.
Whilst I accept people are busy the attitude we encountered was disgusting, uncaring and I would venture, not competent. A full apology was received from the hospital.
So please forgive me but my experience of A&E departments is not good and it's regrettable that I have witnessed hospital staff being far ruder to patients than patients are to them.
The system is broken but it has more to do with attitude than with resources. I am not grateful for sub-optimal care because it's supposedly free. It isn't, it's free at the point of delivery. I for one am not prepared to pay more tax until the NHS delivers services with dignity and behaves towards patients as equal stakeholders.
My wrist was pinned and plated three days later and the care at another hospital was beyond reproach. Possibly because when we got home my husband phoned our MP and let rip. The following day, the Monday, I got calls fromPALs, The CEO's office and the orthopaedic consultant durgeon who did the op. Not everyone's dh went to uni with their MP. I wonder whether the service received when I was admitted for the op would have been to such a high standard and been as swift if there hadn't been an intervention.
Just one experience but whilst I can appreciate the wait, I cannot condone the poor communication, the awful manner of HCPs and the total disorganisation we witnessed. Perfectly happy to wait, but not perfectly happy to be afforded discourtesy and on that occasion incompetence.