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Unsolicited parenting advice from a random man in the street

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HistoryBufff3 · 09/02/2024 17:14

I was out with my 2yo DS in the buggy today, he was having a temper tantrum on the way back from the library because he was tired. I tried to placate him but he was having none of it.

As i'm getting a move on he was sliding down in the seat, tantrumming, and putting his legs on the bumper bar. I put his legs down, he did it again. Rinse and repeat.

After repositioning him in the seat a good three times I thought, just leave him to it, it's an awkward way to sit but no harm done. It isn't hurting him. Let's just hurry up and get him home without causing any more of a scene.

A random man who I assume works for the council given the job he was doing, stopped me in the street by blocking my path and told me in a harsh tone to "fix that bebbys legs"

I wish I had said something witty in response but all I could muster was that he shouldn't be commenting on strangers parenting in the street (unless there was abuse, of course)

Do you think he was reasonable or unreasonable to do that? It has annoyed me and is the last thing a parent needs when they're just doing their best in a stressful situation.

OP posts:
Mistralli · 09/02/2024 23:19

I have a colleague I actively avoid because he is a self-appointed expert in miscarriage, pregnancy and parenting and he cannot help but share his unwanted and unsolicited advice with me. Or any other unfortunate pregnant woman or parent!

At least you'll probably never have to see random man on the street again!

kikisparks · 10/02/2024 06:43

On the bus with toddler daughter an older man was chatting pleasantly to us about having a grandson the same age. Then suddenly told me I needed to cut DD’s nails (they were fine). I just ignored it.

LlynTegid · 10/02/2024 06:48

If you drive an SUV, your child's temper tantrum is a good sign. Otherwise unreasonable to comment as it was not something where he could help in any way.

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