I am wondering if it’s unreasonable for me to try and change the arrangement of a class group trip.
mums were chatting about getting the kids from class together in the holidays for a day of fun.
Parent A has always been a forward person and is not shy when it comes to conflict. She can over take situations.
parent B has a daughter in the class who hasn’t been able to attend school since October and before then was on and off.
her child has a significant health issue/ illness.
she is due to return to school part time.
anyway a group was set up about the meet up / day out which was less by parent A,
organising it and asking for suggestions of what to do or where to go.
parent B suggested a place that they could go and send it over and it was agreed.
then parent A suggested a date ( it’s in half term ) and myself and only 2 others at this point had agreed that we could do that date the rest have not yet replied.
parent B then said oh I’m sorry but we can’t do that they as it’s “ Chloe’s “ weekly treatment at the hospital.
but could do any other day.
the response to this was basically ah ok well maybe next time she can come ( this isn’t s common thing to happy )
she said again that she was free any other day but parent A has stuck to the date she suggested.
is that fair because tech she is the one who set the group up, has started the planning or would it be reasonable for me to say actually if everyone is free on so and so date then we should move the day ?
the groups very quiet and parent B has not said anything else but I am sure that is out of fear of causing conflict.