To think this is quite spiteful and an option rather then a factual account

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The context was that dd struggled and felt unable to come out of her room even when this staff member of was at work. Aibu to think this implying she was faking everything

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Yep - can't read it at all.

The claim is that it's premeditated? A HP is allowed to give an opinion on a report. Just make sure that both you and your DD are heard.

X is reported to have come to the office last night to confirm whether Y was on duty and when she realised he wasn't on duty she did not engage in harming behaviour showing clearly that its premeditated incidents

It doesn't sound spiteful to me op.

It's implying that she only self harms when X is on duty.

Maybe they're just looking at patterns of behaviour to help prevent further episodes. I do agree it's a hard thing to read about your DD though.

Mental health nursing is largely based on educated options and analysis of behaviours.

It basically says she's seeking attention from a certain male.