I also don't see why discussions shouldn't be had about the disparities in diagnosis and care of cancer as they are brought into focus by Charles's news.
If 50% of the population are statistically likely to get cancer at some point perhaps doctors faced with possible cancer symptoms could behave as though there is a 50 / 50 chance it could be and perhaps eliminate that possibility first before dismissing them?
I'm sure most will say I've been unlucky, but my roll call is this:
Step father repeatedly reporting digestive issues in his 70s. Repeatedly treated for indigestion / constipation. Went to GP with shoulder pain. Turned out to be referred pain from liver cancer secondary to bowel cancer, which had killed his father. Palliative care was good, but he was dead within 6 months.
Mum - went to the doctor in her 70s with again digestive issues and other symptoms. Had to dick around with the Fodmap diet for nearly two years. When the fatigue got severe the GP offered HRT. The blood test for that showed up the cancer markers. Stage 4 ovarian. Or omentum. Or peritoneal. Too late to really tell. Chemo bought her three years and also destroyed her quality of life. Nursed her through her last month at my home in early first lockdown. Aside from the district nurses who drained her ascites every other day (and trained me to do it in case of emergency) all other support dried up entirely.
My Dad - splenic lymphoma. Rare but still. Not properly addressed until his spleen was so large removal was the only option. His care has been mostly good since then, however his status as "interesting case study" and nuclear test veteran may have something to do with that.
Close family friend - bladder cancer. Treated for anxiety and depression until she was finally diagnosed. Terminal.
And don't get me started on the overall shambles that is general elder care which I'm elbow deep in at the moment with both my Dad 84 (physical oroblems) and my SM 82 (currently in hospital with delirium on top of multiple mental health issues with us being treated like mushrooms for three weeks and being treated quite dismissively as we try and advocate for her).
If you're going to tell me I've just been unlucky, I will give you serious side eye.