really pissed off, this is my first easter off work ever, as i normally work,all over easter, but am on mat leave at the moment
anyway our grass has not been cut yet this year. and it looks a right state as it really needed one last cut before winter but dh always leaves it and id got a newborn so i couldn't do it.
so last night dh says he wants to go to the gym on good friday. so i feel a bit pissed off but eventally say ok then, as i don't want the weekend to turn into a row
then this am i said to dh why dont you go to the gym now and get it over and done with then he said oh its not open til 10am so by the time hes back and showered it will be 1pm half the day gone.
anyway i saw it was a nice day and said oh we reallt need to get the grass cut this weekend, and he said oh i wont want to do that today blah blah
and that he'd do it on monday
i said well it might rain for the rest of the weekend it best to get it,over and done with.
he still said no i don't want to
so when i was getting ready this am as he couldnt go to the gym till 10, and i had to ask dh to get dd up as i was in the bath and she was crying, when dh was about to take dd downstairs, he realised he didnt hav a bid, i got on for him, he just took it so i said thankyou i s the word i think your looking for, he replied no i think you ment thankyou for feeding dd!
as if she only my baby
anyway then when i came down, he'd fed dd her milk with a dirty teat. she had snot all over her face she must of sneezed as shes got a bit of a cold at the mo, and he obv didnt wipe it.
and she was in a dirty nappy.
dd was playing on her playmat and he was on the laptop
no wonder he thinks i don;t do anything all day if this is his level of babycare.
so now ive cut the front lawn and am half way through the back.
had to stop as dd was crying.
he is also usless at diy and car stuff etc.
yet has the cheek to critasise me. saying that i don't work etc [yes im on fucking maternity leave! ]
sometimes i think id be better off on my own.