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DoubleScreens · 31/01/2024 15:47

I have name changed for this. I have stage 4 cancer and treated bi polar. I am on quetiapine for a mood stabiliser but it is an anti psychotic. I'm also on the max dose of venlafaxine.

I took a week off work and on my return today I had a return to work with my managers manager, who frankly was so offensive it has shaken me to the core.

I work in the nhs in an admin role and this is a snippet of the conversation I had with my managers manager.

She asked me if I'd increased my medications whilst I was off, googled the quetiapine and said oh an antipsychotic, are you even safe to work here ?

Then later in the conversation about my absence (which wasn't because of my mental health) she said who am I actually dealing with here? Are you a risk to me and the other staff?

Wtf??? No. I'm not a risk. It's a mood stabiliser. Even if I was a 'risk' I disclosed it to occy health.

Problem is who do I take this to? She's the head of the service and not my direct manager. There is no one above her.

The more the day goes on the angrier I'm getting. I am in a union

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FirstTim3Mummy · 10/08/2024 15:12

Hello, just read this thread today and wondering what the outcome at work was but also how did you get on with the quetiapine?
Really hope things are much better now both mentally and work wise x

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