A few years ago I became friendly with a couple who were on my ds school run. They live locally to me and although we never socialised, I saw them often at school, around the area and at weekend football matches as our boys play on the same team.
They are well off and the wife doesn't work. She was always very friendly and generous to me. Over the top sometimes. I did a fundraising event and she sponsored me £100! She'd buy birthday gifts for all dc (not just the one who was friends with her son). I reciprocated where I could but not the same extent because I can't!
Despite the generosity, I got the impression she could be judgey and gossipy. She spoke a lot about family who'd she'd cut off. Often made remarks about other school mums and always seemed to know what was going on with everyone. I thought she probably had too much time on her hands and was a bit bitchy but overall harmless.
Well you can see where this is going. Our sons grew up and grew apart a bit. There were a few fall outs between them, nothing serious. And over time she stopped speaking to me. Her husband was still ok but she gradually stopped liking anything I put on fb, stopped with the gifts (not that they were ever needed or expected anyway) and now she doesn't even speak to me. I have no idea what's caused this. I've probably offended her in some way but if I have I suspect it's more a product of her over analysing than anything else.
It's now very awkward when I see her at football or around the area. She'll cross a road to avoid me and I'm certain she'll have slagged me off.
Part of me thinks she's a sad woman and I just need to rise above it but the other part of me thinks I deserve to know what I've done that warrants this and what she's probably saying about me to others.
Wwyd?