to ask my Mother NOT to put her fingers in my babys mouth ?

[Mum1369]

Not only for health reasons (she hadn't washed her hands (urrghhh) but also I find it a very intimate thing to do (we aren't close)

Thanks - don't feelso much like the evil daughter now
Belgo - teeth ! Priceless !

You're not evil. She needs to respect your wishes whether or not she agrees with them.