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Is it weird to find a gay man very attractive?

64 replies

Chipsandcheese1234 · 28/01/2024 21:38

It's not someone I know, he's on a TV show. Don't want to say which one!
He's openly guy but he's one of the best looking men I've ever seen,I find him incredibly sexually attractive and have a crush on him.
Has this happened to anyone else?

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notthisagainn · 28/01/2024 23:31

I have a massive crush on Matt Bomer. So beautiful so gay

MrsSkylerWhite · 28/01/2024 23:34

PaulCostinRIP · Today 22:17
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Rupert Everett was a very attractive man when he was young.”

He still is.

clare8allthepies · 28/01/2024 23:34

He is very good looking but Plane Jane is so mean! That alone puts me right off!

strawberryswizzler · 28/01/2024 23:35

not weird. thousands of women fancy harry styles and he’s hardly straight

Bonjovispjs · 28/01/2024 23:37

Not at all. I'm currently head over heels in love with the singer Mika, he's bloody gorgeous 😍

StBrides · 28/01/2024 23:39

I think its a pretty offensive question tbh

PriOn1 · 28/01/2024 23:39

Years ago I had a massive crush on one of my coworkers. He wasn’t out, but he was gay and another of my (older, much more experienced) coworkers had worked it out and knew I was wasting my time.

I’d possibly have restrained myself from falling for him quite so much if I’d known my chances of attracting him were nil, but I suspect I’d still have allowed myself a little dream because he was absolutely gorgeous!

MNUse · 28/01/2024 23:48

Gay men are men. If you’re a straight woman why wouldn’t you find an attractive man attractive? I find the question weird tbh.

ALPHAFEMALESINCEBIRTH · 29/01/2024 00:59

im 43 and been obsessed by a gay singer since i was 13

in fact my son is named after him

Marblessolveeverything · 29/01/2024 01:04

The late great George Michael. Myself and a few friends were willing to just have him on our arm to admire 😅

IGuessSo · 29/01/2024 01:07

Why would it be weird? He’s a man, you fancy men and you like how he looks. His sexuality makes zero difference to you fancying him. He just wouldn’t fancy you back if you’re a woman.

Weird thread.

blackoverbillsmothers · 29/01/2024 01:20

There’s something about Alistair Appleton. I’ve fancied him for years. Love the way he speaks.

Gloryloroliesjo · 29/01/2024 01:27

There's a reason why I, and millions of women were so sad that George Michael was Gay .Absolutely bloody loved that man and I still get a flutter when I see any footage of him.So sad when he died far too young.

PicklesAndTequila · 29/01/2024 01:31

Bonjovispjs · 28/01/2024 23:37

Not at all. I'm currently head over heels in love with the singer Mika, he's bloody gorgeous 😍

He really is, I saw him last year, OMG, seeing him again in April he was so good, and very bendy!

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