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Will DS just have to accept some lost money

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redamberlights · 26/01/2024 21:06

DS is 18, he was with his girlfriend for over a year during year 12/13 - broke up with her last week. Various reasons but she was a bit too needy, he lost interest etc.
They were meant to go travelling with 4 other friends in the summer. They've booked flights and hostels, he's paid for his interrail pass.
Somethings he can get a refund for or haven't been paid yet but other hostels have a fee to cancel or no cancellation policy and obviously flights too.
The other 4 people are more his exs friends than his. So they've decided she will go and he won't. I've suggested he try and find another friend to go with, still use the flights and interrail pass but maybe take a different route? He said they are trying to find someone else to take his place but really it won't happen.
AIBU to think he may just have to accept a loss of some money?
He worked part time and hard to earn the money so he's devastated to be losing it, such is the nature of young relationships though right?

OP posts:
Fraaahnces · 27/01/2024 00:59

Can’t he go alone and see who he can meet along the way?

araiwa · 27/01/2024 01:00

What lesson do people keep suggest he learns?

fuckssaaaaake · 27/01/2024 07:03

araiwa · 27/01/2024 01:00

What lesson do people keep suggest he learns?

I know right? God forbid he falls in love again and books a holiday with a girlfriend. How utterly dangerous 🙄People on here are mental, glad I'm not in the parallel universe I thought I was and at least ones reads it how I do 😂

ChiefEverythingOfficer · 27/01/2024 07:09

Fucking hell. Do you mean girls remember breaking up at age 18?

Some of these comments are just downright unkind.

ZenNudist · 27/01/2024 07:10

lovinglaughingliving · 27/01/2024 00:05

He should go on his own with the flights and inter rail pass, he'll meet people along the way!

This. I can't believe the hostel reservation can't be changed but if it can't I'd still do that and do his own thing.

Ideally use the flight and the train but go a different route. Don't let him miss out on this amazing opportunity.

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