My DP has been complaining about a cough for days and days and has been monosyllabic and uncommunicative and generally no fun to be around. I’ve been making suggestions about what he could do about it, including ordering boots from Deliveroo. Today I made the same suggestions again and for each one he had a reason. He finally agreed to Boots and I said “why don’t you preorder?” And he said “I don’t like preordering”. I said “fine, you’re an adult, it’s your decision” and he said “I’m sorry for making you snap at me :(“.
For context I’m in hospital, my only (unwanted) visitors are my abusive parents, they keep forgetting my food (special diet) I’m alone the rest of the time, I’m seriously unwell, I’m exhausted because I’m on a noisy ward and in pain and boyfriend can’t be arsed to even text me and hasn’t asked me how I am.
Was he being passive aggressive?