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To unenrol my child to take them on holiday?

243 replies

NameChange547 · 24/01/2024 17:17

DC attends an undersubscribed, small village school. There are 17 children in the class, and they can take up to 30, so I’m not concerned about us losing our place. Is there anything legally to stop me unenroling my child from school, ‘home educating’ them for two weeks on holiday, and then re-enrolling them back in school, to avoid being fined?

DC is high achieving and I’m not concerned about the academic impact. They appear to spend a fair amount of the school day relearning things they already know like phonics (DC can read fluently).

OP posts:
Heather37231 · 25/01/2024 18:30

Are you on glue?

Yourcatisnotsorry · 25/01/2024 19:27

I wish more parents would do this - malicious compliance so that they scrap the fine system.

NickyT64 · 25/01/2024 19:55

As someone who works in the office of a school ………… why on earth would you take your child off roll and apply to enrol rather than just take your child out for a couple of weeks on an unauthorised holiday?????????? I have literally never heard anything so ridiculous!!!!!!! Plus to home-educate you have to go through many hoops! Seriously bonkers!!

EasterIssland · 25/01/2024 19:57

Yourcatisnotsorry · 25/01/2024 19:27

I wish more parents would do this - malicious compliance so that they scrap the fine system.

until so many parents do it that they’re start fining to pay for the extra costs that they’ll cost

Pineapplecolada1 · 25/01/2024 20:46

Do you realise that if you tell the education authority that you plan to home educate, they usually send a social worker round

Messyhair321 · 25/01/2024 20:49

shreknjumps · 25/01/2024 11:51

Imagine considering doing this to your child and to their school before even taking 0.5 seconds to google how much the fines are!

Fucking ridiculous 🙄

Rood

DragonFly98 · 25/01/2024 20:52

Pineapplecolada1 · 25/01/2024 20:46

Do you realise that if you tell the education authority that you plan to home educate, they usually send a social worker round

No they don't.

Hobbi · 25/01/2024 20:53

Pineapplecolada1 · 25/01/2024 20:46

Do you realise that if you tell the education authority that you plan to home educate, they usually send a social worker round

They absolutely do not.

GHSP · 25/01/2024 20:57

So the school would announce in assembly that your children were leaving.

they’d come home with their records of their work and have had their classmates say goodbye.

the administrative staff would have to do a lot of work. And then you rock up after 2 weeks and explain that you just went on holiday. The kids are confused, their classmates are confused, and the school staff will view you as the lowest form of CFs.

pay the fine.

AStrangeStateofMatter · 25/01/2024 21:29

Pineapplecolada1 · 25/01/2024 20:46

Do you realise that if you tell the education authority that you plan to home educate, they usually send a social worker round

Nope

ToffeeMamma · 25/01/2024 21:46

It's more likely the school will realise exactly what you are doing and why and will refuse to take him back

NameChange547 · 25/01/2024 22:59

Wow some people really don’t know a lot about how home education works in this country and are making some very bold statements that are complete crap…

No, you don’t have to register your child as home educated.

No, you don’t have to jump through any hoops or fill out any paperwork to home educate.

No, they won’t send a social worker round.

Yes, you can educate your child wherever you like including from abroad. You can travel round the world if you like. Or go on holiday every other week.

School is an OPT IN system, home education is the default. Which makes fining people for term time holidays ridiculous.

also

No, a state school with places spare can’t refuse to take your child back because they don’t like you.

OP posts:
NameChange547 · 25/01/2024 23:02

Cocosearbobbles · 24/01/2024 18:17

Maybe I’ve misunderstood. I didn’t think the OP was proposing actually trying to fool the school - more that it avoids unauthorised absence.

This… the idea was never to try and fool the school… I would have been very up front about what I was doing

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pollymere · 25/01/2024 23:57

Your child is unlikely to be unenrolled within two weeks! Usually there is contact from a new school or a formal declaration to home school and we got interviewed when we did that with what we intended to teach etc.

Your child will be classed as missing in education if they do get off-rolled but the school are likely to be asked to keep them on-roll and absent or MIE. They are also under no obligation to take your child back as far as I'm aware. We've had students who've been off-rolled and who were declined when they tried to re-register.

Angrywife · 26/01/2024 00:10

I see lots of people telling you to just pay the fine, totally ignoring the fact that many authorities now are bypassing the penalty notice stage and moving straight to prosecution. If that happened, you would have no defence and would most certainly end up with a criminal record and a much bigger fine.

In your shoes, I'd deregister

Hobbi · 26/01/2024 00:13

@NameChange547

A little disingenuous. You don't have to formally register or fill out complicated paperwork to EHE. You do, however, after accepting a school place, have to inform the headteacher that you are taking your child off roll otherwise you are subject to attendance laws. I suppose you could then go on holiday every two weeks but a LA may contest that you are providing a suitable education. They probably wouldn't but every child has to be receiving some form of sufficient education regardless of where the parents say they are getting it. Councils don't get money from central government for work with EHE families despite having statutory responsibilities so are probably too understaffed and lacking in funds to contest all but the most egregious cases of poor provision.

Angrywife · 26/01/2024 00:13

pollymere · 25/01/2024 23:57

Your child is unlikely to be unenrolled within two weeks! Usually there is contact from a new school or a formal declaration to home school and we got interviewed when we did that with what we intended to teach etc.

Your child will be classed as missing in education if they do get off-rolled but the school are likely to be asked to keep them on-roll and absent or MIE. They are also under no obligation to take your child back as far as I'm aware. We've had students who've been off-rolled and who were declined when they tried to re-register.

That process couldn't be acting against legislation more if it tried!!

Notice of home education is an instruction to remove from roll and school has to comply same day. They're not CME, they're EHE. Two different things.

And if a school has a school place, you are legally entitled to it, they absolutely are obliged to take you back.

Angrywife · 26/01/2024 00:23

NickyT64 · 25/01/2024 19:55

As someone who works in the office of a school ………… why on earth would you take your child off roll and apply to enrol rather than just take your child out for a couple of weeks on an unauthorised holiday?????????? I have literally never heard anything so ridiculous!!!!!!! Plus to home-educate you have to go through many hoops! Seriously bonkers!!

There's zero hoops when it comes to de-registering your child to home educate, and any school or local authority that puts hoops in place is acting outside of government legislation

Angrywife · 26/01/2024 00:31

NeverDropYourMooncup · 25/01/2024 16:00

But as croissants said, the LA deals with the EHE notifications and gives schools the OK to delete them from the roll. Safeguarding to avoid the cases where abusers say they're EHE so the kid doesn't have anywhere safe. Once the ehe officer has been in touch and confirmed all is well, then the school has authority from the LA to process them as leaving from that day and not before.

That's completely wrong, the school has to remove the child on the day the parents instruct them to. An authority cannot deny parents the right to home educate unless the child attends a special school.

Its easy enough to find out how it works by reading the government legislations! There's too many schools & authorities that don't read it and work outside of it. Heaven help them when ofsted come calling!!

whichspidermummy · 26/01/2024 01:07

Moll2020 · 25/01/2024 18:06

If attendance above 93% you won’t get fined.

That's completely false. Parents whose children had 100% attendance can and do get fined. What 'may' happen is the school doesn't refer the parents if a child has good attendance, but there is no guarantee they won't refer. Every child that is referred to the LA is almost guaranteed to be fined or prosecuted.

whichspidermummy · 26/01/2024 01:14

redavocado · 24/01/2024 19:37

Schools can authorise. DD had a day authorised last year so that we could visit family abroad. We did plead extenuating circumstances though.

The head would get in trouble for authorising a holiday as LAs come down hard on heads who do -term -time holidays cannot be authorised. What they can do however, is not refer to the LA, so there would be no fine.

whichspidermummy · 26/01/2024 01:17

Itslegitimatesalvage · 24/01/2024 21:02

@Isitautumnyet23

How does that work with split parents? What if one parent just takes the kids away on their day for a holiday which goes into scho time without permission from the other parent or with the other parent disagreeing?

Would you be fined if your ex just took the kid son holiday despite you saying no?

Yes both parents can be fined, even if one didn't know or agree. Anyone with parental responsibility or who the school have details for (step-parents for example), can be fined.

ShoshanaBlue101 · 26/01/2024 07:30

You only need to instruct the school to remove the child from the school roll. The parent doesn't need to contact the Local Authority at all....that's the job of the school.

ShoshanaBlue101 · 26/01/2024 07:36

The Local Authority have no authority to check the standard of home education. Initially, they just contact the parents to confirm that the child is being home educated and to ask if they would like a visit.

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