DH and I both work full time, he works shifts including earlies, lates & nights, I work office hours, 2 days a week in the office. 2 children (8 and nearly 3)
I generally pick up the day to day household activities, such as
school & nursery drop off
loading/unloading the dishwasher
school/nursery pick ups
washing (sorting, putting in the machine, unloading, drying, putting away for everyone)
weekly food shop (ordering online, putting away when delivered) and any smaller shops needed in the week
School/Nursery admin
Generally any household maintenance falls to DH, but he spends all of his time moaning about it. He also hoovers and will cook dinner if he is on an early shift and we are all in (about once a week!) I always cook on a Sunday if we are all in.
Today for example, part of the letterbox fell off. I have been WFH and in between calls saw it had fallen off, tried to fix it but no idea how so left it on the side to mention to DH later as I had another call I needed to go to. He has fixed it, and had a massive go at me about how I should have tried to fix it
I left a cupboard door open earlier (ajar, not side open). Got shouted at about that, instead he could have just closed it (it was open about 2 cm's)
If something goes wrong in the house I do try and fix things but normally it does fall to DH and then he will spend the entire time moaning about how he has to do everything. I ask him to show me how to do it so if it happens again I can help, and then when he rushes through and I ask questions, he complains that I am asking.