Hiya, I've name changed for this post.
My ex and I split around 14 months ago, together for 9years and engaged. No kids. We split for a really pathetic reason, and mainly because I'd had enough pandering to his family and it all came to a head with them and essentially he chose them over me. I moved back to my hometown.
We've always sort of stayed friends, but have gone months at a time not speaking.
We've seen each other a couple of times in the last few weeks after not seeing each other or really speaking for 4 months.
He's now asked if I fancy going away for a few days with him, as friends, as we always had a great friendship and still enjoy each other's company. I don't want to get back with him, I'm finally healed from the break up so don't see if this could do more good then worse and can't understand why he'd want to go away with his ex? I find it weird.
I think his on the same page, I know his not dated since, I have and he says things like I don't like thinking about it but I want you to be happy and tells me he still has photos of us in his house etc. think that's more he's just good at burying his head in the sand.