I’ve been dating someone for around 3 months now, same sex relationship, very early days. We live slightly long distance so mainly communicate via phone, which is fine for both of us as we’ve had experience with long distance relationships before.
I’ve been getting quite a lot of headaches recently and I’m pretty sure it’s because of how much screen time I have throughout the day on various different devices. Anyway, I text her and said that I was having a few hours off my phone and I would text her later on that night to catch up on our day and check in and the reason why (she knows about it all anyway and what’s been happening).
She text back saying not to worry and we can do that the next day instead, so I took that as just relax this evening and we can catch up tomorrow and said okay great, have a good rest of your day and speak soon etc. It turns out that I should have had some psychic ability and insisted that I speak to her that evening to show her I want to speak to her… she wanted me to reply something along the lines of ‘no don’t be silly, of course I want to speak to you, I’ll message you later like I said’… and now she’s annoyed.
AIBU to think I done nothing wrong here and that there’s a slight hint of game playing and attention seeking on her part?
My defence was I’m 30 years old, if someone tells me to message them tomorrow then that’s what I’m going to do, I’m not going to play games of chasing someone!