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To ask how much work you actually and honestly do if you’re highly paid? I am worrying!

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workworkbaby · 23/01/2024 16:22

I’m on 58k. I know it’s not huuuge money, but it’s decent. Honestly, I do very little. I worry all the time about job security and have mentioned to managers I have capacity to do more etc. Sometimes more will land and other times not. As I work largely from home I often find myself just hanging around. I wonder if this is common? I have a toddler in nursery so I can collect them early sometimes which I love so I’m not complaining but I do worry… anyone else?

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DivergentTris · 23/01/2024 20:58

To add..... I would not be able to get my head around being paid twice as much, always on and five hrs a week work. I wouldn't feel like I was earning my crust, I want to be useful, and my knowledge and skills to be utilised effectively. What you describe would feel good for a while but I wouldn't feel lost and without much purpose, so I suppose it depends on your working style, working background and your overall progression to that point for perspective on your post.

noragrats · 23/01/2024 20:59

@Cel77 Manage the handling of two specific pieces of legislation. It has to be done and it needs a specialist

Nottold · 23/01/2024 21:00

I'm on 50k (operations, sales/marketing) now and find the more i get paid the less i do 🤷‍♀️ having always been a min wage grafter it took some getting used to. Tbh i am looking forward to going back to the kind of work that keeps you busy for a shift when i can take my foot off the gas financially as i do get very bored.

TravellingT · 23/01/2024 21:01

Worked full time at £160k with benefits (private health insurance, company car, childcare) and worked at 10% capacity. Very light workload and very flexible. Am able to go back when kids are older, I imagine salary would rise by then.

tiredmama23 · 23/01/2024 21:05

Cel77 · 23/01/2024 20:56

What do you do? What are these mysterious jobs where you earn huge salaries doing nothing?! It just reinforces my view that money is incredibly badly distributed in our society... Care, education and health sectors should get the lion's share. They are the glue that holds society together.

I'm in the health sector, senior level. I earn same as OP and work well below the hours I'm paid for. I get the job done to a standard my boss is happy with. 🤷‍♀️

Cel77 · 23/01/2024 21:07

Ok, I'm a teacher on a £35000 salary and feel as if I'm digging my own grave... How does that work?

tiredmama23 · 23/01/2024 21:07

Jellycatspyjamas · 23/01/2024 20:52

To be fair, I expect most people on these kinds of salaries who don't work long hours took a reasonable time to get there.

That’s certainly been my experience and the experience of people in my circle. Many years (decades) of very long, unpredictable hours and serious post grad study while doing those long, unpredictable hours. I don’t work long hours now, I’ve earned my stripes and while I work hard it’s not a hard job now and I have breathing space I didn’t have previously. I think very few people walk into a higher salary/lower work rate job

Yes to all of this.

I certainly didn't walk into my job - several university degrees and a lot of blood sweat and tears, including working extremely long hours, went into me climbing the ladder to where I am now.

stayathomer · 23/01/2024 21:07

Minimum wage and broken from the work. Used to earn 35k euro and did it comfortably but didn’t have kids and now have 4 so that might be something to do with tiredness, soreness etc

Pottlee · 23/01/2024 21:08

I understand what you mean OP, especially with regards to job security - like will your boss one day think “Hang on, what does workworkbaby actually do? Can we save £58k from the budget and give her tasks to someone else?” Or if redundancies start and your boss is questioned by more senior management about what your job actually entails and they realise it’s not as much as maybe it should be for getting paid £58k
Could however be a bit of a case of imposter syndrome whereby you’re not actually appreciating how much value you really add to the business. How long have you worked there? Has your role always been the same and your workload been similar to now?
It could just be that it’s a quieter time for you and in twelve months from now you might be thinking “why was I so worried about not having much to do, look at me now!” and you’re run off your feet.
Try to enjoy it and appreciate how good you appear to have things.

ZenNudist · 23/01/2024 21:13

What are all these jobs that you don't have to do anything for? I earn the classic MN 6 figures (ie low hundreds) work PT but have so much to do it's crazy. I have worked hard since I started over 2 decades ago and never stopped.

Mummyofbananas · 23/01/2024 21:15

I'm on around £25,000 (work 30 hours) and I have more work than I could ever manage. I normally work around 5 or 6 hours extra plus overtime at the weekends.

Vettrianofan · 23/01/2024 21:17

CurlyhairedAssassin · 23/01/2024 20:24

What do you do? I'm sorry but 5 hours a week is ridiculous if you're getting paid a very high salary for that, I don't care if you're "always on". Lots of people are "always on", but that's on top of 8-10 hours day every day! Do you really think you give value for money?

There's no need to be jealous!

KL090 · 23/01/2024 21:18

@CalMeKate
I have had these jobs. I have cleaned toilets, spent hours on my feet and whilst my kids were young I was a single mum trapped in the cycle of never being able to earn enough to come off tax credits/universal credit. I have never been to uni, I’ve just worked and worked, two even three jobs at a time. It is not that I don’t appreciate hard work, I wouldn’t have got where I am without it but I am good at organising systems, building relationships and have picked up a ton of knowledge of my field of work that’s now valuable. In all honesty not many people would want to do my job even for the money and my colleagues have told me this many times! There is no thanks in my job, in all honesty I am primarily a problem solver so I am mostly dealing with things no one else can deal with and they are usually all negative so I don’t get to experience many happy joyful outcomes anymore. I used to when I was more hands on. There is a price to pay even though I can load my dishwasher during the day sometimes (I did today)

Red0 · 23/01/2024 21:21

We have a chairman at our company who puts his two pennies worth in two days a month and is paid £250k per year. He holds the same position at another company and contributes the same amount of work/days and presumably gets paid a similar amount. The rest of his time he seems to spend travelling and playing golf. Alright for some eh?!

noragrats · 23/01/2024 21:22

@KL090 in my experience, problem solvers are the highly paid ones.

ISeeTheLight · 23/01/2024 21:23

I'm on 75k ish and do work pretty hard, I'd say approx 43hrs a week or thereabouts (I'm meant to do 40). And that 43 is because around 6.30pm I give up. I am senior, report into the CEO. Manage a wider team of about 20 people. C suite are "burnt out" and keep having long holidays (COO is going on a 6 month plus sabbatical at the end of the month) and they feel fit to just drop everything on me and the 3 other business managers. Our finance manager also left a couple of weeks ago - without a job to go to as they were so fed up - and of course that person's responsibilities are now also falling on me. I'm seriously fed up. I'm also exhausted but don't have shares so can't exactly go off gallivanting for 6 months at no pay.

Only light at the end of the tunnel is that we're part of a group (marketing agencies) and the group C suite apparently want me to run my own agency within the group (my specialism, no other agency in the group does this and I'm the most senior person with extensive experience in the whole group). Trying to force them to speed that up at the moment.

Vettrianofan · 23/01/2024 21:24

Cel77 · 23/01/2024 20:56

What do you do? What are these mysterious jobs where you earn huge salaries doing nothing?! It just reinforces my view that money is incredibly badly distributed in our society... Care, education and health sectors should get the lion's share. They are the glue that holds society together.

Love this response on the thread...not spotted any others thinking along these lines yet. Wonder why that is🤔

ISeeTheLight · 23/01/2024 21:25

That said I also worked in a call centre dealing with people crying, screaming and swearing at me all day so I definitely prefer my current position over that.

DeepestDarkestRiver · 23/01/2024 21:26

CatMum27 · 23/01/2024 19:20

I’m finding this thread oddly reassuring. I’ve recently moved into a new role (50k + and more than I ever thought I would earn). It involved moving up a couple of levels and I’ve been a bit surprised by how relaxed I feel most of the time. When it’s busy it’s busy but a lot of my time is spent planning and making sure my team can do the actual work which is a lot less hectic than previous roles. There are many meetings and many emails to deal with but it’s a strange transition to planning and facilitating from actually doing. I’m paid to be available and to lead/be strategic but with less day to day.

For context it’s taken 20+ years of slogging my guts out in all sorts of ways. Was staring to think it was just me!

I'm the same. Newish to the role. Moved up to the next level (planning, facilitating, managing, but no longer doing), and earning more (£80k) but have so much less to do. Was feeling a bit down about it this week, in fact, so good to hear of others in similar situations. I am educated to PhD level and have 21 years' experience in my field so am rather dismayed that I have so much free time. Would like to ask for more work but am worried I'll be made redundant if my superiors realise how little I have to do!

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2024 21:27

It just reinforces my view that money is incredibly badly distributed in our society... Care, education and health sectors should get the lion's share.

The lion's share of what though? If a business in the private sector makes a lot of money and wants to pay their staff well, that's entirely up to them. Presuming they pay their taxes as required.

ISeeTheLight · 23/01/2024 21:27

Also, my previous manager - also c suite - did virtually nothing and would not respond for days on end but she was made redundant earlier this year so that strategy clearly didn't pay off! (And still currently without a job)

HiHoOfftowork · 23/01/2024 21:30

And people wonder why productivity is so low in this country and the economy is tanking!!

NooNakedJacuzziness · 23/01/2024 21:32

I'd rather have job satisfaction and lower pay I think.

yellowbowls · 23/01/2024 21:38

Not me but DH is on 55k and if they could drain his blood they would, he is massively over worked and needs to find a different, less stressful job in my view.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 23/01/2024 21:38

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2024 21:27

It just reinforces my view that money is incredibly badly distributed in our society... Care, education and health sectors should get the lion's share.

The lion's share of what though? If a business in the private sector makes a lot of money and wants to pay their staff well, that's entirely up to them. Presuming they pay their taxes as required.

Surely it depends what that business is making a lot of money from, and how? Who are their clients/customers? If your customers are ordinary people really struggling to afford what you're offering, but what you're offering is an essential service, and the price you charge those ordinary people results in huge profits for the company, how ethical is that? Huge profits for the company just means you can afford to pay more for people in senior roles to work only a few hours a week. And your shareholders get paid for doing nothing. I guess that's capitalism for you, though.....

The older I get the more frustrated I get with capitalism. It's just a gut feeling that we're doing life "wrong", but it's so entrenched in Western society, and seemingly getting worse, that I wouldn't begin to know how you would start changing anything.

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