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To ask how much work you actually and honestly do if you’re highly paid? I am worrying!

524 replies

workworkbaby · 23/01/2024 16:22

I’m on 58k. I know it’s not huuuge money, but it’s decent. Honestly, I do very little. I worry all the time about job security and have mentioned to managers I have capacity to do more etc. Sometimes more will land and other times not. As I work largely from home I often find myself just hanging around. I wonder if this is common? I have a toddler in nursery so I can collect them early sometimes which I love so I’m not complaining but I do worry… anyone else?

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Daisy12Maisie · 25/01/2024 20:29

60 grand a year in a public sector job. Absolutely run ragged all the time. So brain dead I can't finish sentences sometimes at the end of a shift. So good money and secure but I carry a lot of risk and it has a massive impact on my health and home life.

PureAmazonian · 25/01/2024 20:39

To all the NHS workers and carers out there reading this and feeling defeated about your 200% capacity work loads and diabolical rates of pay....as a fellow health care professional I'd like to say thank you for your service 🙏🏼

ORLt · 25/01/2024 20:52

Musicteacher89 · 25/01/2024 17:31

Gosh! All these people on £50k + doing next to nothing, what is your secret?! Honestly, try teaching, you'll never worry that you're working below capacity. You'll also never earn anywhere near that...

The secret is in the lying.

boodlesandpoodles · 25/01/2024 21:06

£110k + bonus 20+yrs experience in my field, I have peaks and troughs from extraordinarily busy to not at all, where I am able to walk dogs / do shopping during working day etc. I value the flexibility I have to plan my day as I wish.
I’m fully remote, but at my level, head of department, I never switch off and i am always checking emails/slack late into the evening.

Lancasterel · 25/01/2024 21:49

Metallicant · 23/01/2024 16:58

Dh earns a high salary and does almost nothing.
I work a hell of a lot harder for peanuts.

Same!

I teach two days a week and earn a fraction of what my DH does, and my days are manic.

unlikelychump · 25/01/2024 21:51

80k and flat out all the time. Local government though if that explains it

PepperIsHere · 25/01/2024 23:16

Someone mentioned skill set. That is a big part of it. I have a fairly unusual collection of skills which seems to make me a little bit valuable. I won't say very because I'm not earning ridiculous money but it is decent and I don't have any stress.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 25/01/2024 23:37

I earned about £35K in local government and worked flat out all the time, in a stressful job. I used to get home and collapse on the sofa with a pile of snacks as I was too tired to eat. Everyone in my team was as busy.

FindingNeverland28 · 26/01/2024 02:15

I would love to know what some of these jobs are.

Schnapps00 · 26/01/2024 05:35

Cel77 · 23/01/2024 20:56

What do you do? What are these mysterious jobs where you earn huge salaries doing nothing?! It just reinforces my view that money is incredibly badly distributed in our society... Care, education and health sectors should get the lion's share. They are the glue that holds society together.

Boring corporate ones IME! I stuck out about 18m in financial services in business management, but the stuff going on (compliance, snails pace change projects, EU legislation etc etc) made me want to stick pins into my eyeballs! It was working with people, but wasn't really people stuff. Self-employed now helping people as a coach and earn v.little (PT), but find it much more interesting.

Peaches1407 · 26/01/2024 08:17

I'm in London and earn 50k in a finance role. I work hard and know what I'm doing after 20 years so most the year I work 8.30 to 5.30 ish, at busy times twice a year I occassionally work evenings/weekends also. I could get a higher job and more money but I want less stress right now.

Charlie2121 · 26/01/2024 08:31

200k WFH. Highly experienced in a fairly niche role so paid for knowledge more than effort.

I definitely had to work harder when I was on 50k-100k than I do now. I work far fewer hours and have strong autonomy over my diary which makes life a lot easier especially as I have a nursery age child.

I feel I’m now being rewarded for my previous career efforts. I am far less stressed than when I was earning less and having to commute daily.

EmmaInScotland · 26/01/2024 09:18

workworkbaby · 23/01/2024 17:18

Sorry, to clarify I am worried about job security. I am single so feel a lot of pressure!

Should the worst come to the worst, given your concerns, I'm guessing you are saving as much as you can for one "cushion", but also, what is the vacancy rate for similar jobs in your area (or another one you'd be happy to move to)

ORLt · 26/01/2024 09:43

Starseeking · 24/01/2024 22:13

What job do you do/industry do you work in, if the former is too outing?

Only break is to run to the loo and of course, sit for hours on Mumsnet and post comments. Of course we believe you!

ORLt · 26/01/2024 09:45

Peaches1407 · 26/01/2024 08:17

I'm in London and earn 50k in a finance role. I work hard and know what I'm doing after 20 years so most the year I work 8.30 to 5.30 ish, at busy times twice a year I occassionally work evenings/weekends also. I could get a higher job and more money but I want less stress right now.

Lovely to see an honest post on the background of many posts of "super valuable individuals" who get paid for their 'unique' experience, yet have the time to read Mumsnet and post things. I think this thread has been hijacked by teenagers!

ORLt · 26/01/2024 09:49

I genuinely think the thread has been hijacked by teenagers, lots of 'niche knowledge' problem solvers who get paid to solve problems in legal finance (it does not exist, unless we talk about litigation finance, which only recently became available - it was champerty before) nobody else can solve, and yet they hang about on Mumsnet. A few honest posts from public sector employees on 60K, etc. but all this bragging of unique experience nobody else has.... Soon we shall have Musk and what's his face posting here, I fear.

Peaches1407 · 26/01/2024 10:07

Lol, I know what you mean but if the posters are in London then salaries are pretty high, Office based staff at a senior level working in the NHS get at least 80k. It's such a shame when the nurses on the front line get half that.

Charlie2121 · 26/01/2024 10:20

ORLt · 26/01/2024 09:49

I genuinely think the thread has been hijacked by teenagers, lots of 'niche knowledge' problem solvers who get paid to solve problems in legal finance (it does not exist, unless we talk about litigation finance, which only recently became available - it was champerty before) nobody else can solve, and yet they hang about on Mumsnet. A few honest posts from public sector employees on 60K, etc. but all this bragging of unique experience nobody else has.... Soon we shall have Musk and what's his face posting here, I fear.

I can assure it can and does happen although in many cases, including mine, it is far more about being lucky and in the right place at the right time rather than any tactical masterstroke.

Any semi-competent professional who found themselves in the same role as I did a decade ago earning 50k would have achieved the same.

I realise that in years to come the type of role I do may well get downgraded because the level of experience others have and therefore the competition will inevitably increase.

There are industries where huge changes, primarily technology driven, have created massive new opportunities that just weren’t possible before. Add in layers of complex and evolving global legislation and regulation and you soon find yourself in the box seat if you were involved at the outset.

As part of my role I’m asked by global regulators and governments to assist them with the creation of new regulatory frameworks as I’m seen as a global industry expert in my field. I’m happy to do this as being able to in some small way influence new legislation and regulatory codes helps protect the business I work for.

My best career advice to anyone is to understand that only a tiny number of people are genuinely gifted to such an extent that they are head and shoulders above normal people in terms of ability. I think I’ve met maybe 2 or 3 in my entire career. Everyone else is broadly on a par and given the right opportunities could succeed in higher paid roles were they minded to do so.

Keep pushing at doors and one day the right one will open. Persistence pays.

Gia79 · 26/01/2024 10:46

Am I only one slightly open mouthed at the confidence of many posters who believe they are so gifted and one of a kind? 😂 I don’t want your job but I do want to bottle up that confidence and sell it! It’s really refreshing to see so don’t get me wrong! I hope my DD is like this one day.

TheKeatingFive · 26/01/2024 11:02

One thing that's very clear - most people don't give a lot of thought to the earning potential of the career paths they choose when they make the decision.

Beyond 'graduate job, should be ok'

That includes a lot of people who fall into lucrative areas. It's often more by accident than design.

bluebeck · 26/01/2024 11:25

Gia79 · 26/01/2024 10:46

Am I only one slightly open mouthed at the confidence of many posters who believe they are so gifted and one of a kind? 😂 I don’t want your job but I do want to bottle up that confidence and sell it! It’s really refreshing to see so don’t get me wrong! I hope my DD is like this one day.

Well, only 12 people in the UK do my job. I’m considered the best of them.

I am often invited to European meetings and seminars to discuss my field and am considered a leader in this arena too. So yeah, I have confidence that I am doing a good job, despite the fact I can do it less than half the time my employer allows.

I am not a high earner by MN standards, in the £50 - £60k bracket for 4 days. No interest whatsoever in progressing to higher levels.

ImAMaximalist · 26/01/2024 11:39

But what IS your role??
how should I advise my son to get this kind of role?

Dontshootthemessengers · 26/01/2024 11:49

No wonder our NHS doctors and nurses are so hacked off with their salaries given that they work their butts off for it and so many on here seem to do Jack!

Margaritavillee · 26/01/2024 12:44

I earn 60k so not megabucks but I’m only late twenties so hoping it will increase in a couple of years. Just joined a new company and will hopefully get a 20% bonus in the summer. I wfh and don’t work all 8 hours of the day and haven’t done since 2020 really. Realise I’m quite lucky and working in finance certainly helps with earning a decent salary.

SideshowAuntSallyx · 26/01/2024 12:55

Just under 30k plus bonus, could get more if I went to work in London but I'd have to do more days in the office as speaking to others who do the same role in other companies they're all in 3 days a week. I'm rushed off my feet (I'm just having 10 minutes before a meeting). I never have a quiet day and regularly work more than my hours. If the people I look after are busy then so am I and they're always busy (and work bloody hard for their 6 figure salary).