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Dumped Neighbour's Waste At Their Front Door

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headshots · 22/01/2024 13:44

I've been unlucky with the kinds of neighbours life has given me.
A month ago, neighbour a few doors away came to take my bin from my front garden, placed it in theirs and filled it with their waste.
I went to pick up my bin from theirs and emptied their waste back into their own bin. I knocked on their door and asked politely that they stopped taking my bin (this was the second time) as that leaves me with no where to put my own waste. I made my point and walked away.
To my surprise, my neighbour has done this again today, making it the third time.
They filled my bin to the brim while theirs remained empty. They seem to be producing a higher level of waste as a family and think they have a right to take my bin. What they do is fill mine up first before considering filling theirs.
This time, I emptied their bin bags right in front of their door and took my bin away.
AIBU?
What else could I do to make my neighbours stop disregarding my boundaries. They skip their next door neighbours but come to my bin perhaps because I live alone, look familiar and can be disregarded?

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headshots · 22/01/2024 16:46

DidntReallyMeanIt · 22/01/2024 16:23

Your bin stealing neighbour and all the others sound horrible.

But you shouldn't have emptied the rubbish out of the bin bags onto their doorstep, as it's windy so the flying rubbish is going to affect everyone and if you've been caught on anyone's doorbell cam, you could receive a fine.

They are in bin bags. There was no waste flying over the place. When I was emptying the bags. They peeled through the windows to see what's going on and left me to it. When I went back out about an hour later, they'd packed it up into their own bin.

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headshots · 22/01/2024 16:48

mathanxiety · 22/01/2024 16:44

Get a ring doorbell to record anyone touching your bin when it's out front.
Get a lock for your bin.
Bring the bin to the back garden.
Keep a log for your own MH.

Don't go to the Council to make an official complaint. That might affect your house sale.

Plan on selling.

Thank you. All very useful advice. I got have arranged for CCTV to be installed this week, just because I don't feel safe alone and around these many unkind neighbours, but now see it will help with other issues.

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DidntReallyMeanIt · 22/01/2024 16:49

headshots · 22/01/2024 16:46

They are in bin bags. There was no waste flying over the place. When I was emptying the bags. They peeled through the windows to see what's going on and left me to it. When I went back out about an hour later, they'd packed it up into their own bin.

Sorry I misunderstood. When you said I emptied their bin bags right in front of their door, I thought you meant you emptied the actual bin bags, rather than just taking them out of your bin.

Ohnoooooooo · 22/01/2024 16:53

I am sorry this is dreadful - if you can't find your bin I would personally take their bin and stick my address on it.

headshots · 22/01/2024 16:55

Findingmypurposeinlife · 22/01/2024 16:17

Can you look into the possibility of selling your house to the local council?
Or, consider letting your property to the council so it is rented out to local people who are looking for a home and who have approached the local council for assistance. If you insist on the rent being paid directly to you (if they are in receipt of benefits) then you are guaranteed rent.

Plus wouldn't the council then be your tenants official 'landlord' or contact? (So they wwill technically have to be involved in any resolution with neighbour disputes.)

Sorry you are going through this.

Thank you for this suggestion. I will look into it. I don't know much about selling or renting out as I'd wholly set out to buy and live in my house but that's become impossible.
I now have it on market to sell through an agent and also speaking to them about finding a short term lodger pending my when it sells.
I'll contact the council about renting or selling to them and weigh my options. Thanks.

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pontipinemum · 22/01/2024 17:18

That is honestly so so weird, your neighbours sound awful . I would keep it in the back garden.

Feelinggoodtuesday · 22/01/2024 17:20

They are jealous, OP. You have my sympathies. They sound awful.

CormorantStrikesBack · 22/01/2024 17:22

Well if they held my bin to hostage again and I was without a wheelie bin I’d just empty all my household bins on their doorstep without the rubbish being in bin bags. I’d really give them something to call me crazy about!

AnneValentine · 22/01/2024 18:05

I love that you did this!

WhamBamThankU · 22/01/2024 18:49

Well done you!!

Wellhellooooodear · 22/01/2024 18:55

Hats off to you OP. Cheeky fuckers.

Needanewnamebeingwatched · 22/01/2024 18:55

This is harassment and you should report to the police.
Log every incident
Contact your policing team

Drosera · 22/01/2024 19:21

Have you a back garden to put it in?

sixoclocks · 22/01/2024 22:40

Yes, I have a back garden and have now put the bin in there. And I'll start to keep a log. Thanks!

headshots · 22/01/2024 22:41

sixoclocks · 22/01/2024 22:40

Yes, I have a back garden and have now put the bin in there. And I'll start to keep a log. Thanks!

Sorry NC fail. Still OP.

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