I'm really curious about non-biased opinions here.
My brother's marriage broke down and due to various circumstances he had to move back to my parents. Things have come to a head over the last few weeks as they've felt it's not their home anymore (he doesn't pay rent, doesn't tidy up, expects my DM to do his washing/ironing etc). He also his DS every other weekend.
This week it came to a head with him and my DF. They only have a 2 bed bungalow so not much space, and a tiny garden so no room for an annexe, and they both work full time (they're 65 for ref). My DB has been wanting to redecorate the spare room but due to space, they requested to keep some of the room as an office for when our dad works from home. To make a long story short he said no and said that they make him feel unwelcome. So he took his DS, handed them the key and left.
My DM's been upset all day and thinks maybe they should have let him redecorate and have the room the way he wants. I think that just them saying to us that we always have a room here means until we get back on our feet and not permanently? He's 37 and I think acting like a petulant child - AIBU? Or rather are they?