Hello

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I have just looked at my husband phone and he's obviously having an affair. I feel sick.

I'm so sorry. That must be awful. How long have you been together? Do you have a plan of action?

So so sorry OP. Did you look at his phone because you suspected?

Sorry OP that’s rough.

I’m so sorry OP. Gather all the evidence you can before confronting him. Screen shots of everything before he can delete and deny.

handhold and a hug x

I'm sorry, that's awful. Don't tell him you know until you've got all the evidence stored somewhere he can't destroy it. Have you got a close friend you could confide in? It's a hell of a weight to carry alone.

You poor thing. I think a few of us have been there and understand how heart wrenching it is. Do you have any idea who it is? I agree with the previous poster who said keep quiet about it for now and gather your evidence. This applies whatever you decide to do.

I'm so sorry OP. I remember that feeling so well, like your whole world was a lie. I wasn't married though, according to him that was deliberate as I wasn't marriage material.

Have you gathered evidence? My advice would be to make sure you have lots of evidence so he can't deny it. My ex was a huge gaslighter and even with solid evidence denied it.

I am now with a wonderful man and am very happy, you deserve that too ❤️

Hope you are okay OP