I imagine I'll sound very naive asking how to go go about this, but please bear in mind I've always worked in the public sector where job offers are usually 'what you see is what you get' eg fixed salary grades, hours etc. I'm also a people pleaser, no experience in bargaining!
For context there is a recruitment crisis in my sector currently and my qualification and experience is in high demand, lots of reliance on agency staff etc.
I applied for two jobs (permanent), same role different places. Both advertised interview dates the same week. Received interview to job A, nothing for job B. Went for interview for job A, got the job, verbally accepted. Feedback was they were very keen to have me. Verbal offer only so far, subject to references, DBS etc.
Job B got in touch and said they'd been delayed in sending out interview dates due to sickness. Had an interview and have also been offered job B.
Job A is lower money than what I'm on now, reasonable commute. Job B is better pay but longer commute, enough to potentially cause issues, also seemed keen to have me and they've offered condensed hours to reduce the impact re commute.
If I were to go back to job A and ask whether they'd consider condensed hours, or some negotiation re salary (they won't be able to match as their pay is just lower generally, but I think they could offer me mid band because of my current salary) what is the appropriate point to do this? Should I wait until I get the offer from HR, or go to the manager who interviewed me? Ask straight away or wait until I get a written offer?
I feel weirdly grabby for asking in a public sector job, but don't want to lose out just because I agreed to one post before the other. I genuinely don't know how to go about it without giving a bad impression though!
Also in case anyone asks why I'm looking to change jobs for less money and more awkward commutes, some management changes/bullying culture at my current workplace, not affecting me directly yet but think it's time to move on. I can afford lower pay, but obviously would prefer not to have to if I have a choice. No difference in the roles/responsibilities/workload etc just how different local councils pay.
Any advice, especially from those with experience in public sector would be very appreciated!