So my LG is 7 months old. My partner who I own a house with assured me during my pregnancy and before I even got pregnant a family is all he wanted. Tbh I didn't know if he was really the one for me but he had helped me recover from an op so I felt safe with him and felt I would be able to rely on him. When I was recovering he insisted I give up my apartment and livevwith him. during my recovery he wanted to go out with his friends but always said he couldn't go because I needed looking after, I was grateful , by the way I have no family here in the UK. Fast forward during my pregnancy he starts saying when the baby comes he won't be able to do much coz if work and he needs to see his friends. I felt bad coz he reminded me often that he didn't get to during my recovery so I picked up EVERYTHING FROM feeding, nappy changes , late nights etc. During that time I'd live on 2 hours sleep on the arm chair, hardly eaten, walked around for hours getting our baby to sleep that my feet remained swollen 4 months after birth and was recovering from my c section . He would come in the room and say things like I'd live to help but I hurt my neck during my 7 hour sleep, or hurt my back relaxing on the sofa and he needs to sleep early or have an hour long bath because he is tired. 7 months on after pleading for his help I resent him.he then went through mental breakdowns and his family accused me for not being available for him during his stressful period at work. Im sorry. Im trying to keep a human alive here and ur lazy son doesn't want to help! I can't believe I'm with such a person. I want to leave but I'd have to go through the courts coz all I want to do is go back to my family n friends and laugh again they in Australia... I feel like I'm in hell with him but I can't even rest coz my baby needs me so despite me operating in survival mode I have to show up for her. What should I do ... AIBU ?