I have been seeing this very handsome man for some time (almost 3 years). Although I have broke it off for a while in-between as I feel he has a sociopathic side to him and not necessarily someone I want to be with long term and I didn't want to waste my time and miss out on meeting someone else.
Anyway it seems hard for us to stay away from each other and end up seeing eachother again. However, he has made a very bad financial decision that is going to cost him a lot of money. I spoke to him about this when he told me about it but he was undenial. However, he now realises and is trying to get out of it.
Now back to the point - he knows that I do not want to sleep with him if he is sleeping with anyone else and he has always been fine with it. However, recently he told me he wants to end it which made me think he is sleeping with someone else. An older lady who with is not hurting financially has flirted with him for many years but he has never given in to her. Up until now. I can't say the evidence I have as it would be outing.
I have only recently found out about this and he has been calling me and messaging (he doesn't know that I know about it). My gut is telling me that he is going to use this woman for financial gain some how and he is playing on her attraction to him and as soon as he's gotten out of his "mess" he will drop like a hot sack of spuds. All the while trying to keep me there.
My gut is never been wrong especially when it comes to him.