We're going on a long planned, long awaited and quite expensive holiday towards the end of the month. The country we're going to requires a visa which I applied for and had approved week before last. The process is to apply, wait three days and then log into their system to check. DP applied a few days later, and never checked. Today he finally logged in and found it had been rejected due to his not including a required piece of personal info. He never logged in (expected an email from them - despite their saying explicitly that you had to check yourself) so it's possibly been sitting there rejected for a week. He reapplied, it should be fine but it's really tight now with zero space for stuff to go wrong. I swallowed my irritation and looked at some back ups, which I sent to him. he responded 'I'm not worried' on whatsapp. When we discussed it at home this eve he was blase about it, totally unbothered, and I eventually said that it's good to acknowledge when your actions have created a stressy situation. I know it was an innocent mistake, but surely he could have said he was sorry that things are a bit uncertain. He thinks I'm being VERY unreasonable. Am I?