Sorry to be slow replying: I slept for ages after posting; then did write a reply which of course MN vanished into the ether as it sometimes does, because even websites have to amuse themselves somehow.
Sometimes I wonder if my autism means I’ve missed something everyone else just instinctively understands (possibly should have put that in OP) so it’s nice to know that, less the statistical improbability of everyone who’s agreed being autistics who’ve missed A Thing, this is indeed a bit shit.
@Angelik that’s awful, I’m so sorry 😔 I really hope they’ve now reassessed & you have a decent chair - well, NHS decent iykwim: it’s the cushion that can be the killer in a cheap chair, as I’m sure you know! As for holding your spare prosthetic leg hostage?! (If you don’t mind my asking, do you find The Last Leg has given people the impression you get limitless fancy legs from the NHS, much as people think it’s wheelchairs for all?)
@KaiserChefs The Red Cross, unfortunately, wouldn’t be able to provide a chair that meets my needs better - it would be worse, in fact, because it wouldn’t fit me as well & would be heavier.
@Postapocalypticcowgirl unfortunately I’m not well enough to work - but I might have to approach some of the smaller charities that offer grants if I have to go the personal wheelchair budget route. Getting money from the Mobility Trust is like winning the lottery because so many people can’t get the chairs they need & there aren’t many funding sources for what can be hugely expensive pieces of kit.
@AdditionalCharacter I’m so sorry about your SIL - as you say, it completely removes your independence when someone has to take you everywhere. Do you know if she’s tried/been offered a self-propelled chair with one-arm drive? You do need strength & some dexterity in the arm you use to push, but it might give her a little independence (I can just go nowhere with one arm instead of two 😂 - tried at my appointment so it’s in notes as proven unsuitable) - & even if she still needed someone with her most of the time she’d be able to eg look at stuff in shops/position & reposition herself at tables/take herself to the loo.
@olympicsrock it can’t be easy having patients who can’t get the mobility aids they need - especially if you’re the one who referred them to wheelchair services.
@Hankunamatata It’s not an unreasonable question, but as I said in my OP, my DLA already goes on the increased costs of living associated with being disabled. If I could put aside the entire mobility portion, it would take several years to save enough to pay for the chair (& I’d have to ask my father or my aunt to keep hold of the savings for me to avoid my ESA being cut for having savings).
@Octavia64 I think part of the reason for Whizz Kids is children outgrowing their NHS chairs before they’re due a new one/“too often”. Kids often have such specialised needs the cost of their chairs is staggering. It is a bit mad so many of them cost more than cars…
@WiddlinDiddlin it’s frustrating isn’t it - & I think it makes it feel even more frustrating because it’s a postcode lottery. I’ve a friend in a different part of the UK whose running joke about me staying with her for a bit to get the wheelchair I need starts to seem more & more like an actual good idea. I wonder if there’s a bit of the Paralympics effect at play - not just the weird “all disabled people should be elite athletes” thing, which makes less than no sense; but disabled people in the public eye usually have the ✨fancy✨ kit. Moreover, it’s not uncommon to see them loudly supporting the NHS (which I’ve no problem with, to be clear!!!) but without mentioning they had to fork out for their own wheelchair/prosthetic/home adaptations, meaning people assume everything is funded for everyone. (Yes home adaptations are funded by local Councils not the NHS, but people seem to assume it’s all linked up). Nobody’s under any obligation to share their personal circumstances with others, of course, & some of them will have NHS stuff that meet their needs - but it would surely help if people were clear that NHS underfunding meant they self-funded whatever & they wished everyone had the opportunity (etc etc).
I don’t have the taxi issue, at least, as I’m in London. But it means using my TaxiCard, which is pricey after Addison Lee “restructured” things 🤨 Cabbies are pretty awesome about prioritising jobs for TaxiCard users, especially if we need to get to/from hospital; & they always see me safely into the house, especially if it’s late/dark. But going to & from the hospital trust that manages my care? Probably £25 for either site. I usually get transport, but if I have to go to A&E or they don’t show up 🤷♀️
@RubyWinehouse as I said in my OP, I’m still in receipt of DLA, including Higher Rate Mobility, but cannot afford to redirect that money into leasing a powerchair through Motability. (I find it genuinely quite shocking it’s a lease scheme rather than allowing people to pay in instalments; but also not shocking, because not only is this the country where the UN said the government are breaching the human rights of the disabled population & the response was “nuh-uh”; but also the country where the courts thought it was perfectly reasonable not to boost legacy benefits during Covid because disabled people are used to grinding poverty).
@Soubriquet as I said earlier in my response, getting money from them is like winning the lottery: I will keep my fingers crossed for you, if they ever get round to accepting your PIP stuff 😕
@IMustDoMoreExercise yes, quite right - unfortunately it is as the Scope report I linked in my OP explains: costs associated with being disabled already use up [most of, obviously it varies] my DLA/PIP
@DragonFly98 the car bit wouldn’t be a problem for me, admittedly, but just the cost of the lease of the chair is prohibitive 😔
@Topofthemountain I felt so bad for the clinician my appointment was with: imagine going into a job to help people only to spend all day telling people you can’t help them?! Lots of people must get angry with her too, because she’s the one having to give them the news; & I’m sure people cry, because I felt a bit like I might. I wouldn’t be surprised if the job has an incredibly high burn-out rate because clinicians are so worn down by not being able to do their job because Computer Says No. Then being shouted at/feeling like they’ve made someone cry/feeling helpless at how helpless a vulnerable person feels 😔