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Work - cameras on culture

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Maybe2 · 17/01/2024 20:37

I’ve spent the majority of my life in jobs where I work with colleagues in my local area/attend an office even if it’s with a hybrid working pattern. So I’m used to people seeing me face to face, seeing what I look like, but naturally respecting me due to seeing me in action and work and doing a good job.

in summer I got a promotion into a new team, role is mainly remote with all colleagues based across the UK and zero in my local area/office. Therefore they only see me on camera. I hate what I look like on camera and find it more difficult to build rapport cause my own image is so distracting. I don’t know what it is - I think I have more presence/confidence in person?

I’m in my 20s and feel like the people who work with me in person treat me normally cause they see how I work on a day to day and respect me, whereas in this role a lot of people are surprised at my age and almost act like I don’t deserve my position. I feel like I need to “prove” myself more. I feel like I get a better reception with the same people when I don’t have my camera on. I do understand it’s something I need to work on but if I’m being U, any advice appreciated

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disappearingfish · 17/01/2024 20:46

My advice? On teams and zoom you can hide your own face from you while others can still see it.

No one cares what you look like. They only care if you are competent and pleasant to work with.

MrsTerryPratchett · 17/01/2024 20:46

My camera 'malfunctions' regularly. In those meetings, I am present, engaged and helpful. If you are, there isn't an issue.

Futb0l · 17/01/2024 20:51

My camera 'malfunctions' regularly. In those meetings, I am present, engaged and helpful. If you are, there isn't an issue.

There is. A massive amount of communication is non verbal. Facial expressions say so much.

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