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AIBU to think that guideline ‘suggested calories per day’ should be reduce

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Crepid · 17/01/2024 19:55

We all know that the NHS guidance is that adult women should eat 2,000 calories per day and men should eat 2,500.

I’ve also just seen that a 7 year old girl is suggested to eat over 1,500 calories a day - again, the source is the NHS.

I’m 5ft 6, and have a BMI are the upper end of normal (very close to overweight) and I would say that I am probably a little overweight (fat around my abdomen and generally not as slim as I’d like but I’m on track).

In the past year I’ve taken to the gym where, combined with eating less and healthier food, I’m happy to say I’ve managed to lose about 1.5 stone (9.5kg).

For motivation, every time I attend the gym I use a new body sensor device that gives me a detailed breakdown of my stats and it clearly states that to maintain my weight and physique I should eat no more than 1,350 calories per day.

Obesity is causing a huge strain on the NHS and robbing people of their mobility and broader health.

Why are they recommending that people eat 2,000 calories per day when myself - a woman of larger than average height and medium activity levels is being told on both the gym equipment and the GP surgery machine that 1,300 calories will suffice in keeping me at the upper region of ‘healthy’ if not close to overweight?

That’s less than a 7 year old child.

AIBU to think that the calorie suggestions should be lowered to combat it?

YABU - calorie guidance should stick at 2000/2500 calories

YANBU - calorie guidance should be reviewed and lowered

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Louloulouenna · 20/01/2024 02:54

@shearwater2 well not that “poorly expressed and misleading” surely if you and everyone else understood it!

shearwater2 · 20/01/2024 07:16

Useruser1 · 19/01/2024 14:23

I'm a man who has always struggled to lose the last belly / chubby fat, and was eating 2000-2500 a day.

For the last 4 months I've averaged 1700 and lost weight.

You are completely right.

Side note I really like that so many places put calories on menus, it makes it easy to make a smart choice!

I think people are mostly talking about maintenance calories. My average is 1700 to lose 1lb a week too, maintenance is 2200. Well done on your loss.

Zanatdy · 20/01/2024 07:19

They are averages and I think that should be made clearer. So for me, I cannot eat 2000 calories a day, my maintenance is around 1500 max. I’m short and don’t weigh a huge amount. I often hear people say they can eat 2000 a day and I look at them and think no they can’t. For some taller people it will be more. There’s plenty of calculators online to check

Teddleshon · 20/01/2024 09:30

@Useruser1 yes, as you point out following the NHS guidelines, which for a man you were within, will mean for many people they end up significantly overweight. High time they were reviewed.

SchoolQuestionnaire · 20/01/2024 09:41

NeptunaOfTheMermaidBattleSquadron · 17/01/2024 20:17

Maybe a better AIBU would be for the NHS to abolish calories as a measure of food completely and teach people to eat healthily in appropriate portions by what it actually looks like on a plate.

Agreed.

I’m short and can easily eat 2000 calories or more of ‘real’ food - eg chicken, fish, nuts, full fat Greek yogurt, vegetables - and not gain weight. In actual fact when I’m eating well I don’t need to track. If I tried to eat 2000 calories of cake, chocolate and crisps I’d be huge.

Calories are a useful metric but not the whole story. The quality of the food is far more important than the quantity.

soupfiend · 20/01/2024 09:43

shearwater2 · 19/01/2024 23:13

I've also had the opposite experience with menu calories, where I've ordered a starter which was supposed to be 500 calories, and it's like a couple of prawns and a lettuce leaf, and I feel short changed! And hungry.

Hate to bring up mayo with you again but that 500 cals is made up of 100 cal for the prawns and then 4 big dollops of the sauce (mayo)

OMGitsnotgood · 20/01/2024 09:51

vivainsomnia · 17/01/2024 20:03

Well done you! I totally agree. I've had a Fitbit for close to 10 years and it's been telling me that I burn 1400 calories on a non active day up to 2000 on a VERY active day, that involves about 20k steps and a hit class.

I'd love to think it's wrong but my weight gains and losses across the years have shown me that it's spot on.

If I were to take up 2000 calories a day doing moderate exercise, I'd gain 1 stone in probably 3 months!

I always understood that even if you didn't move, eg sat on the sofa all day, you'd still be burning some calories by just breathing, or sitting at a table eating a meal. Ok it will be a small amount but do fitbits etc add in anything for when you are sedentary or just when you are active?

OMGitsnotgood · 20/01/2024 09:52

Oh and meant to add you also burn calories while sleeping, not sure if fitbits count those too?

soupfiend · 20/01/2024 09:55

OMGitsnotgood · 20/01/2024 09:51

I always understood that even if you didn't move, eg sat on the sofa all day, you'd still be burning some calories by just breathing, or sitting at a table eating a meal. Ok it will be a small amount but do fitbits etc add in anything for when you are sedentary or just when you are active?

Yes of course thats your BMR, then your TDEE will be the amount you actually burn in day to day life

Mine is low, Im quite sedentary. I move from room to room in my house, get in the car on the drive, go to work and largely move around an office and then do the same back home

So I have to do a walk to get any steps in, and even then I can only manage an hour due to time so am only doing an hour each day where Im moving around.

OMGitsnotgood · 20/01/2024 10:03

Yes of course thats your BMR, then your TDEE will be the amount you actually burn in day to day life

@soupfiend just to clarify... is your 'yes of course' in response to whether Fitbits/apple watches etc count your non-active consumption? I was concerned that people saying 'my fit bit tells me I only use xxx calories a day' aren't adding in 'non-active' calorie usage.
Yes, there are a lot of overweight people these days, myself included, but equally people do need to understand that they are still burning calories while sleeping/eating/resting - not as an excuse to eat more but to ensure those who are already an ok weight aren't under eating.

AvengedQuince · 20/01/2024 10:22

avocadotoaststoppedmebuyingahouse · 19/01/2024 15:49

Switching from getting up and changing TV channels to remote controls is supposed to make us put on 2lb a year if nothing else changes. It is a very finely balanced system.

You'd notice clothes getting tighter and adapt though surely? Such as add more exercise like taking the stairs or cut out a biscuit with a coffee so you lose that 2lb again.

AvengedQuince · 20/01/2024 10:27

soupfiend · 19/01/2024 18:47

The post was clearly talking about 'extra' spoonful, it was implied this was a calorie equivalent of the tablespoon of mayo, ie about 100 cals or so, probably more, mayo is virtually just oil - above your calorie need.

This would allow you to gain weight slowly, virtually invisibly over the year and suddenly you're a stone fatter

I don't get how it's invisible though. I notice a couple of kilos easily in jeans or trousers. Unless people are living in activewear?

Louloulouenna · 20/01/2024 11:43

I somehow think there is possibly a correlation between people who wear stretchy clothing and who are overweight. I notice straight away if a waist band is feeling tight and cut back accordingly.

soupfiend · 20/01/2024 11:53

OMGitsnotgood · 20/01/2024 10:03

Yes of course thats your BMR, then your TDEE will be the amount you actually burn in day to day life

@soupfiend just to clarify... is your 'yes of course' in response to whether Fitbits/apple watches etc count your non-active consumption? I was concerned that people saying 'my fit bit tells me I only use xxx calories a day' aren't adding in 'non-active' calorie usage.
Yes, there are a lot of overweight people these days, myself included, but equally people do need to understand that they are still burning calories while sleeping/eating/resting - not as an excuse to eat more but to ensure those who are already an ok weight aren't under eating.

Sorry no, I dont know anything about fit bits, it was more that I was agreeing that you burn calories during sleep

KirstenBlest · 20/01/2024 12:03

Louloulouenna · 20/01/2024 11:43

I somehow think there is possibly a correlation between people who wear stretchy clothing and who are overweight. I notice straight away if a waist band is feeling tight and cut back accordingly.

Me too. If I'm in joggers I won't notice but if the jeans are snug, time to ease off the fattening food a bit.

megletthesecond · 20/01/2024 12:08

Probably. People aren't very active these days.

DontKaleMyVibe · 20/01/2024 12:56

I like to think I would notice an extra stone but I rarely wear jeans or trousers, I'm mostly in dresses/skirts & blouses and being hourglass shaped, the weight spreads out pretty evenly across my bum/thighs & chest, so a few pounds could definitely go unnoticed if I wasn't keeping an eye on my weight.
I know a lot of people who have been wanting to lose weight and have massively underestimated the calories in what they're eating/really thought an extra spoon of mayo or a couple of biscuits wouldn't make a difference but it really does.

NewYear24 · 20/01/2024 16:44

My friend is trying to lose weight, she’ll tell me she’s only eaten XYZ that day but forgets to include the large latte she’s just ordered in her calculations.

DontKaleMyVibe · 20/01/2024 16:50

NewYear24 · 20/01/2024 16:44

My friend is trying to lose weight, she’ll tell me she’s only eaten XYZ that day but forgets to include the large latte she’s just ordered in her calculations.

People do this all the time. Another one is eating a salad and not counting the 600 calories added by sauces, bread roll and butter (a friend did this over lunch with me one time and completely refused to believe that it was an extra 600 calories until I showed her the math)

Clarabell77 · 20/01/2024 17:43

OP I would bet money that you’re not averaging 1300 calories a day.

Blackalice · 27/01/2024 20:52

Yes it does, but OP stated that they burn 1300 calories. That will just be their BMR not their total expenditure on a typical day xx

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