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Dogs in the office

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banjocat · 17/01/2024 15:39

I've recently started at a new workplace.

Someone in the same office but from another team brings her dog in, and has been doing this since before I started.

It's a very large open plan office, around 30 computers in there, and also members of the public come into the front area (where there is a customer facing desk).

I have mild dog allergies. Not to the extent that it really causes a problem, but if the dog came and sat near me (which he sometimes does) I have to move away from him.

Despite my allergies I do like dogs, but I suppose I'm just surprised that no one mentioned or checked with me that there would be a dog in the office. With such a flow of staff and people through the space, there are bound to be people with allergies or other problems wtih dogs - I'm kind of surprised that this is allowed and just seems to be in place every week.

I don't feel I can say anything without it creating bad feeling as it's an established routine now and lots of colleagues love the dog.

Are dogs in the office becoming the norm now?

AIBU to think it's a bit rude not to check with everyone who is working there?

OP posts:
SwimmingWorrier · 19/01/2024 10:25

Reading - preferably books on employment law

I'm just looking on Amazon for one to take on my beach holiday.

kisstheblarney · 19/01/2024 10:35

SwimmingWorrier · 19/01/2024 10:25

Reading - preferably books on employment law

I'm just looking on Amazon for one to take on my beach holiday.

I think asking @KarenNotAKaren might be a good idea, she'll know best!

bringincrazyback · 19/01/2024 12:18

Livelifelaughter · 19/01/2024 08:43

OP says she has a mild reaction not enough to cause a problem....so she either complains about the dog which she is entitled to do and runs the risk of coming across as difficult during her probation or sucks it up ... that's the reality. We can debate the rights and wrong but when you are in a new job you want to be a team player that gets on with people.

You also want to be in reasonable comfort in order to do your best work. Speaking from experience even a mild fur allergy is detrimental to performance. When I worked somewhere that allowed a dog in the office I was constantly popping antihistamines, which don't always mitigate symptoms btw, so at times I'd have fits of sneezing, plus having red eyes at times. Not very professional or conducive to productivity. Being in reasonable physical shape at work is just as important career-wise as being a team player.

KarenNotAKaren · 19/01/2024 13:10

ClareBlue · 19/01/2024 08:21

Agree. I once had a 5 day old kid goat on my knee at the start of a zoom call. There is nothing that lifts the spirits more than a kid goat and it was only for two minutes for everyone to see. I was told to put him away as the workplace wasn't the place for animals😥but then I was in the office and everyone was fussing over a dog someone had brought in. Always favouritism to dogs.

I wish my Zoom calls at work involved goats!

KarenNotAKaren · 19/01/2024 13:13

kisstheblarney · 19/01/2024 09:31

@clickifyouwanna @SwimmingWorrier

Remember please when you're on holiday, any downtime must be spent either

  1. Reading - preferably books on employment law
  2. Swimming - whatever time of day or night
  3. Enjoying yourself, by not being on any SM or forums
  4. Going on any forums, makes you "odd", remember that?

Have I missed anything @KarenNotAKaren?

I need you to instruct me on holiday etiquette, so no one can say "who goes on MN , whilst on holiday", I mean who stays up until 2am arguing on MN?

I do. Obviously. I don’t sleep much. So sue me.

ArabellaScott · 19/01/2024 13:16

Do anti histamines not make one drowsy? Are there side effects?

vodkaredbullgirl · 19/01/2024 13:18

ArabellaScott · 19/01/2024 13:16

Do anti histamines not make one drowsy? Are there side effects?

You can get non drowsy ones.

VanGoghsDog · 19/01/2024 13:22

The clear answer is to give the anti histamine to the dog so it sleeps and stays away from allergic people. Win-win!

Goldenbear · 19/01/2024 13:49

clickifyouwanna · 19/01/2024 10:19

You'll be known as that employee - whether that bothers you or not, whether it hinders your promotional prospects who knows, I suspect someone who asks this question has form and there's more coming - there always is.😂

Not really an odd question. I know the complications of this at DH's workplace is a reason for the withdrawal of offer. Plus they have talent who want a dog free zone.

SwimmingWorrier · 19/01/2024 14:17

Goldenbear · 19/01/2024 13:49

Not really an odd question. I know the complications of this at DH's workplace is a reason for the withdrawal of offer. Plus they have talent who want a dog free zone.

I think it would depend on the company and how the talent felt.

To be fair when we do have dogs in occasionally they are well behaved and nobody is allergic.

Livelifelaughter · 19/01/2024 14:27

If you read OPs post, she is saying her reaction is mild and only occurs if the dog is in proximity. Maybe the answer is to not suggest the dog is banned or similar which may well piss her colleagues off or make her look difficult in a new job but just to gently laugh it off when the dog comes near her "oops can you go back to x because as cute as you are I am a bit allergic"

lieselotte · 19/01/2024 14:32

Remember please when you're on holiday, any downtime must be spent either

  1. Reading - preferably books on employment law

I think MNers need to brush up on their consumer law (totally misses point of thread)

Our old office allowed dogs because there were individual/small group offices. The new office is open plan, so no dogs as there is nowhere to keep them away from other people.

DBD1975 · 29/10/2024 16:32

Find another job.

Noshowlomo · 29/10/2024 17:28

@DBD1975 you're 9 months late

garlictwist · 29/10/2024 17:40

KnickerlessParsons · 17/01/2024 15:55

Dogs have no place in offices. I couldn't work in an office if there was a dog there - I'm frightened of them.
I can just about tolerate a guide dog or other support dog as they are so well trained, but I'd still be uneasy all day and probably wouldn't work as well as I would otherwise.

This. We have a few guide dogs in our office as I work in disability support but there is no way I could work with a pet dog. I do not like them. The guide dogs are barely noticeable they are so quiet and well behaved.

Nanny0gg · 29/10/2024 17:57

Ginmonkeyagain · 19/01/2024 07:29

Also hot, noisy, brightly lit offices are not especially great for dogs

Not to mention taking them on public transport. I can't imagine many dogs like the Tube

Nanny0gg · 29/10/2024 17:58

Bloody Zombie!

lieselotte · 30/10/2024 08:12

I know this is an older thread but I was walking past an estate agents the other day and a couple were in there with a dog.

It is rapidly getting to the point where people who aren't keen on dogs have a significant problem in finding a job they can do and not be bothered by them.

Years back I worked in a library, I bet they're allowed in libraries now as well.

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