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To think £290 for my prescription is insane?!

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Justintimeee · 17/01/2024 00:13

Posting here for traffic

I was diagnosed with ADHD 18 months ago and have been receiving monthly medication since.

I have been having follow up zoom calls with my psychiatrist every 6 weeks at a cost of £170. On top of that, to actually have the prescription written is £25 and the meds themselves are £95 so it is a huge cost for me.

The meds have completely turned my life around so I really do not want to go back to life without them.

The issue is, I can no longer afford to pay for the £170 follow ups so regularly. I have asked for a prescription but it has been refused if I don't book a follow up so I am at a loss... I had no idea they were mandatory for me to get medication when I have been diagnosed.

Do I just find another doctor? Is it the same everywhere? I have been refused shared care due to some NHS rules against accepting patients from private ADHD doctors so I don't know what to do.

I am in Essex if it helps.

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WriterOfWrongs · 18/01/2024 14:00

At the risk of sounding like an arse, I strongly advise that any person going down the assessment process for ADHD pro-actively researches (including asking your health care provider) what shared care actually is, what right to choose actually is, what the process actually is and what the likely medication is.

We're talking about your health and potentially taking controlled drugs people, for condition where the care and process can vary greatly from area to area and private v NHS. FGS sake be fully informed be before you embark on the process.

alltootired · 18/01/2024 14:41

@WaitingForSunnyDaysAgain No one is saying ADHD is not real or denying that medication can help. We are just saying that stimulants also improve the functioning of people without ADHD, because they are stimulants.

SquirrelSoShiny · 18/01/2024 14:58

Kdtym10 · 18/01/2024 06:58

Great post. I’m one of the missed girls. I spent my life in a constant state of guilt and feelings of failure. Having a diagnosis has immeasurably improved my life.

The blind faith in the NHS is laughable. I wouldn’t trust them to diagnose a cold. They’re useless especially when it comes to mental health. Anyone trusting the NHS on this has clearly never experienced the NHS in this context.

I have a theory regarding the seemingly increased prevalence of ADHD. Firstly it’s the increased recognition of symptoms but secondly I think society is becoming increasingly more incompatible with neurodiversity. In the past you were probably the slightly oddball one who saw The Dress as aNot black and blue or white and gold but very light blue and dark gold, the one who was simultaneously reading 10 books, never finishing any of them, the one who got bored because everything was so ducking predictable. Got bored at school because the teachers went too slow and you ended up in a much better world in your head. But there was space to adapt, to be different. Now everything is regulated, no room to look at anything differently, everything is on a strict timetable, the world is full of meaningless fluff that is extremely boring to many with adhd. It’s much harder to mask without an eventual nervous breakdown. Society is broken not those with adhd. .

Yep. I'm like a broken record saying this to all the naysayers. My parents have very obvious ADHD but were able to leave school young, get a council house and make lives for themselves. It was a different world.

freespirit333 · 18/01/2024 17:51

Does anyone else actually have recent experience of both private and NHS diagnoses?

The NHS procedure is absolutely not more rigorous, as I’ve mentioned upthread the paediatrician barely spoke to my son and offered my then 7 year old stimulant medication “to see if he has ADHD or not”. And people think that’s rigorous?

cremebrulait · 18/01/2024 17:52

girljulian · 17/01/2024 00:32

My DH had the same. His GP quite candidly said that most NHS doctors believe private doctors will diagnose anyone with ADHD who tells them they think they have it, so they won’t take the diagnosis on board and prescribe the medicine. Meanwhile, of course, DH is still on and endless waiting list for an NHS doctor to see him.

I believe this. Because thats what people are encouraged to do to get funding for SEN. Plus there are some high risks involved.

alltootired · 18/01/2024 17:53

@freespirit333 that is really shocking

AlleycatMarie · 18/01/2024 17:59

Sorry you’re in this position. I work in CAMHS and we won’t accept private adhd assessments because a huge number of them are unreliable unfortunately (although of course not all). I understand the waiting list for adult assessment on the NHS is even longer than for children.
Can you clarify with them if the reviews are indefinite or just until they are convinced you are on the correct dose? Will they write to your gp to confirm this?

Mumofthreeteenagers · 18/01/2024 18:00

The NHS will fund but have to go through their process. They won't take a private diagnosis. So maybe start the process with NHS and carry on private til move over?

WriterOfWrongs · 18/01/2024 18:02

freespirit333 · 18/01/2024 17:51

Does anyone else actually have recent experience of both private and NHS diagnoses?

The NHS procedure is absolutely not more rigorous, as I’ve mentioned upthread the paediatrician barely spoke to my son and offered my then 7 year old stimulant medication “to see if he has ADHD or not”. And people think that’s rigorous?

I used the term 'rigorous' - purposefully also saying 'on average' - and yes I absolutely have recent experience of both private and NHS diagnoses. I wouldn't have said it otherwise. I've been diagnosed by both a private psych and the NHS. My children, with me present, were both diagnosed by the NHS.

My private psychiatrist was great, and eminent, but no way was the assessment anywhere near as thorough and rigorous as the NHS one. That might be because he's allowed to use his experience and instinct more and not go through a checklist, and he specifically said I had a very specific trajectory in one area to a certain sub-group of women with undiagnosed ADHD. But the NHS assessment, even though I'd already been assessed by the private psych.

Both my DC's assessment on the NHS were thorough.

Your experience sounds shocking bad, and I'd say that's a rogue paediatrician. It shouldn't' even be diagnosed by a paediatrician, but a paediatric psychiatrist if that's what you meant. You can't categorically say the NHS process isn't rigorous based on ONE experience. That's ridiculous.

WriterOfWrongs · 18/01/2024 18:03

When I say go through a checklist, I mean metaphorically, like stick to a rigid system. He did give me a literal checklist to fill in.

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Trinity69 · 18/01/2024 18:07

My son was diagnosed privately in 2019. Couldn’t afford private prescriptions so had to wait for the NHS to assess again before they’d medicate, costing the NHS money for no reason.

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lalalala1234321 · 18/01/2024 18:14

I would say - change the surgery!
Regulations have been the same for a few years now.
I work as a pharmacist at 2x different surgeries and as long as shared care request comes from private or NHS clinic and all requirements are met - no issue with getting NHS prescriptions.
for monitoring we require annual reviews with the psychiatrist and 6monthly physical check - pulse, BP, weight and height
how often does your private consultant wants to see you?
I would recommend ADHD 360 for all UK - they happily request shared care and if you are around London or Hampshire- I can give more options of clinics our patients use.

DriftingDora · 18/01/2024 18:34

girljulian · 17/01/2024 00:32

My DH had the same. His GP quite candidly said that most NHS doctors believe private doctors will diagnose anyone with ADHD who tells them they think they have it, so they won’t take the diagnosis on board and prescribe the medicine. Meanwhile, of course, DH is still on and endless waiting list for an NHS doctor to see him.

I think this is the case. I know of someone else who had the same problem, where the GP said almost exactly the same.

WriterOfWrongs · 18/01/2024 18:38

I would recommend ADHD 360 for all UK - they happily request shared care and if you are around London or Hampshire- I can give more options of clinics our patients use.

Um @lalalala1234321 perhaps you haven't read the full thread but it's been said several times on here that ADHD 360 is one of the clinics the Panorama documentary featured as unethical and very quick to give someone an ADHD diagnosis. I believe a PP went into detail about why, possibly from their own personal experience, I can't remember.

Also, the issue with this whole malarkey is not the shared care agreement coming from the private clinic, it's the GP willing to accept the shared care agreement. And as you'll no doubt know, they are not obliged to, there is criteria that has to be met in their view.

Longma · 18/01/2024 18:43

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axolotlfloof · 18/01/2024 19:01

KarenNotAKaren · 17/01/2024 00:42

OP I would suggest watching the Panorama documentary on private ADHD diagnoses and how they’re basically big money making scams. Be very careful, I know the wait is unbearable but a NHS diagnosis is more robust and they aren’t looking to make a monthly profit from you

I agree. Some of these clinics give 100% diagnosis. Basically you are paying for a guaranteed adhd label.
Sometimes there are multiple causes especially autism and ocd, but people go in looking for an adhd diagnosis and they are the customer.

Missingpop · 18/01/2024 19:13

Can you not just go to your gp with the evidence that you’ve been diagnosed & tell them that the medication has turned your life around for the better & ask them to prescribe it

CantFindMyMarbles · 18/01/2024 19:26

You’ve chosen private healthcare and that is the cost.
you can ask your GP if they’ll honour the prescription but they may say no

Carlosi456 · 18/01/2024 19:29

It's such a shame people don't realise the Tory government agenda to privatise the NHS until they're personally affected. Act Now to save the NHS, it needs modernised and reviewed, but not like this.

DonnaBanana · 18/01/2024 19:40

SquirrelSoShiny · 18/01/2024 14:58

Yep. I'm like a broken record saying this to all the naysayers. My parents have very obvious ADHD but were able to leave school young, get a council house and make lives for themselves. It was a different world.

Did they smoke? I think ADHD has always been around but until quite recently we had a then socially acceptable way of medicating away certain aspects of it in the shape of smoking (smoking is/was statistically very common in ND adults, but obviously has stigma now).

Jesswhi · 18/01/2024 19:47

If you are stable on your dose and have been for a while I.e 6 months or more I can’t understand why you need to have a consultation every 6 weeks? Have you been referred to an nhs adhd clinic? I know the waiting times are long but atleast you are on the path? Can you query why you have to have a 6 week review every time? Can you find a different private clinic who might take over your care? Really feel for you I know 2nd hand how life changing (saving) adhd medication can be 💐💜

Thefsm · 18/01/2024 20:46

Wow - this m in America and have health insurance so my weekly appointments and DBT classes are only $10 each copay and my meds are $3 a month. I would never have imagined uk would cost more than here. Most expensive prescription I got here was $400 for an anti nausea med an ER doctor prescribed, needless to say I just accepted the nausea. Is there no generic version of the med? Or could you not use an online psychiatrist service for it?

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