My ex and I co-own the former family home, in which ds and I still live, and recently needed to replace some carpets. I contacted my ex about this and described to him the colour I was thinking of, gave details of quotes, etc, and he said if we were happy, he was fine for us to proceed (it's a purchase we'll both pay for).
The carpets were fitted today. This evening, when my ex arrived to see ds, ds enthusiastically showed his dad the new carpets. My ex's face was a picture - and preceeded the words: "I don't like them. They don't go - the carpets don't flow between the rooms now. The new ones look cheap. I'm quite surprised, actually: you usually have good taste. We'll now have to recarpet the whole house before we can sell."
Am I being unreasonable to feel pissed off and hurt by his comments, particularly since he declined to have any involvement in this matter anyway?
And we will not need to replace all the carpets in the house, ffs. [eye roll]
Hmph.