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I can’t work out if I’m behind unreasonable? My sister, who I usually phone or call at least once a fortnight if not week, has not called or text once to ask if I’m ok since major (planned) surgery. I’m now two weeks post surgery and the most I’ve heard from her is to respond to a text I sent our family group chat?
Ive text her to ask if she’s ok, as I thought it was odd not to hear from her. I also sent her a screen shot of a something I thought she’d like that was in the sale and quite niche to her tastes, saying- “Uh bargain and totally you!”. Nothing in response. I checked in with my Mum, to see I hadn’t missed something, when mum visited and she said that she was probably just busy. Mum said she’d only spoken to her on the day of surgery to say it had gone much better than expected.
Just before the surgery, the surgeon thought it was more serious than it apparently was and was trying to set the scene for serious life changes afterwards, which luckily I did not end up having. She was in tears when we said our last goodbye as she was worried. She gave me a really long poignant hug with lots of tears. This was days before the surgery. Nothing other than “yes that’s fine” in response to my text in group chat since.
I feel quite upset that she hasn’t called or text. I feel like she doesn’t care. We are usually quite close. I don’t think I can say anything to her, as she’s likely take offence. But I’m not sure if I’m being overly sensitive (at a fragile point in my life, as recovery is no picnic- I’ve only just been able to start walking around again, this week). AIBU?