Genuinely open to brutal feedback here.
i started a new job in summer as a senior manager, and think my arrival has put out the existing members of my manager’s team (my level colleagues). There’s a lot of lip service from them in his presence, but hostile behaviour when he’s not around (and tbh, sometimes when he is around). My manager is okay with me and has given me good feedback/a bonus and lots of autonomy.
for example my manager wants my team to bond with the other teams. So I sent my level colleagues resources that have helped, invited them to my team meetings with guest speakers & put them in touch with my network, which has even led to them taking credit for some of my ideas & getting a bonus. Equally, they never do the same for me or my team, completely freeze us out of useful things. Get the impression I’m stepping on toes etc.
when I asked them for help (once), in a group setting they rolled their eyes and said my predecessor never had this issue. I know my predecessor did as they informed me in my handover so I found that rude. My manager didn’t say anything. Therefore I limit my interactions with them, but now it’s turned into a concerned “we never hear from you”. Almost as if I’m not being a team player?
also there’s occasions where they’ve randomly tried to do my work for me or pulled the rug from under me and I feel patronised. They also are outwardly bitchy about other people in our team meetings and I get the feeling they do the same about me when I’m not around