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For finding the term "registered disabled" annoying?

201 replies

BobbyBiscuits · 09/01/2024 04:14

As background, I worked on behalf of the DWP for 15 years, and one project was developing the process/ forms etc for DLA to PIP transition. It was not a nice workplace but I really enjoyed speaking to the clients and getting their voices heard. (I was too junior for any decision making and simply interviewed clients in view to designing the forms etc)

After a MH breakdown, I found myself in the same position as my clients and now claim both PIP and ESA. I have MH which has now generated PH issues. My family are also on same/ blue badge etc.

For some reason recently this terminology has been annoying me...I hear a lot of people describing themselves as "registered disabled'. Why not just say 'disabled'?

This is a voluntary self reporting scheme that some councils offer. There is no such thing in any meaningful terms. Disability is a spectrum and how if affects each person is very different. I hate the benefit system and am not advocating it but get frustrated when people use this terminology as it's meaningless.

There is no register of disabled people, and it's really misleading. It can muddy the waters when people seek help.

I'm not blaming disabled people, but whoever started the terminology.

Any thoughts on this?

OP posts:
XenoBitch · 09/01/2024 22:52

Mrsjayy · 09/01/2024 22:43

what free tickets though I mean did she pay full and get a carers ticket ?

Yes, she pays full and gets a free carer's ticket. But in reality, she would expect to pay half and her "carer" pay half too.

sondot · 09/01/2024 22:58

@XenoBitch

Sometimes I go places alone and sometimes I go with another person. We will pay for a disabled person or adult (whichever the venue offers) and get the free carer ticket. So what?

Fifthtimelucky · 09/01/2024 23:01

Yes. As others have said, there used to be a register of disabled people, which was kept by the jobcentre. It had nothing to do with any entitlement to benefits.

There were certain jobs that were only allowed to be done by registered disabled people (from memory some car park assistants and lift attendants).

In addition, all employers were supposed to ensure that at least 3% (I think) of their employees were registered disabled. If they were under the quota they could be given an exemption to allow them to recruit someone who wasn't registered disabled. If I remember rightly, depending on the size of the employer they could be given a permit to employ up to eg 10 non-disabled people, so that they didn't have to ask every time they had a vacancy.

In order to get the permit, the employer had to prove to the jobcentre that they had tried to recruit a disabled person but been unable to, or that the job in question wasn't suitable for a disabled person.

I have a feeling that the jobcentre could insist that the employer interviewed and considered various disabled people from the register before granting the permit.

Disabled people didn't have to register, but employers sometimes put pressure on them to do so, because they wanted to be able to prove to the jobcentre that they were meeting the quota.

XenoBitch · 09/01/2024 23:23

sondot · 09/01/2024 22:58

@XenoBitch

Sometimes I go places alone and sometimes I go with another person. We will pay for a disabled person or adult (whichever the venue offers) and get the free carer ticket. So what?

The person I know does not need a carer, or someone to go with her. She is just taking advantage of some of the benefits of claiming PIP. Can't say I blame her, but like I said in a PP... my best friend needs someone with her and was turned down for PIP so her carer has to pay too.

Willyoujustbequiet · 09/01/2024 23:47

sondot · 09/01/2024 20:50

@WhompingWillows

Can you not just accept we are discussing those with disabilities which don't include being registered blind?

Edited

It's not just blind people though. It's all disabled children.

And as far as I understand it the devolved nations can choose their own approach. I believe Wales keeps a record.

sondot · 09/01/2024 23:57

It's not just blind people though. It's all disabled children.

Not aware of my DC being on any register, but even still, the discussion is as about those who have no register.

sondot · 10/01/2024 00:00

@XenoBitch

The person I know does not need a carer, or someone to go with her. She is just taking advantage of some of the benefits of claiming PIP. Can't say I blame her, but like I said in a PP... my best friend needs someone with her and was turned down for PIP so her carer has to pay too.

She can probably show a pic of her blue badge to get a free carer ticket, DH did this many times. Aside from that, it's not taking advantage to get a free ticket if you have an entitlement, which your friend does. I think you need to separate the 2 scenarios in your mind because putting 2 disabled people against each other isn't nice at all.

BobbyBiscuits · 10/01/2024 01:04

'Taking advantage of some of the benefits of claiming PIP"
This language is grim. Needing PIP means you need support. Of your own choice , PIP is money that people can spend on whatever they like. There are no "benefits' of claiming PIP. It's annoying and horrible to go through the assessments and most people would rather be able to cope without it.
People need it and to say 'taking advantage' is horrible.
It's to compensate you for your disability which makes your life cost more money and take more effort. It is rarely enough to cover most peoples disability needs either.
"Taking advantage'- another nasty ableist phrase I hate.

OP posts:
Mrsjayy · 10/01/2024 07:29

XenoBitch · 09/01/2024 23:23

The person I know does not need a carer, or someone to go with her. She is just taking advantage of some of the benefits of claiming PIP. Can't say I blame her, but like I said in a PP... my best friend needs someone with her and was turned down for PIP so her carer has to pay too.

You have decided who is and who isn't disabled enough to use concessions you are expecting "that person you know" not to use a concession because you think they are "morally wrong" I mean come on have a word with yourself! Your Best friend needs to however hard and draining it is reapply for pip and appeal decisions.

Voice0fReason · 10/01/2024 11:07

forcedfun · 09/01/2024 21:10

I don't "identify as" disabled. I am disabled. I have a diagnosed condition that caused disability. But I am not on any register and I do not claim any benefits. I would need to adduce medical evidence to demonstrate disability.

That's my distinction. I am disabled, it's not something I have coopted as an identity. It's ever present in my life. Being on a register somewhere wouldn't make it more or less real.

I see disabled as anyone that meets the criteria in the Equality Act (that would include the registered blind and those that claim PIP or have voluntarily registered with a local authority but it is not limited to them )

I agree that you ARE disabled (as am I)
You are able to evidence that.
So you have protection under the Equality Act because you have that evidence.

Someone who self-identifies as disabled may not have the same legal protection because they don't have any evidence of a disability.

I agree that being registered on a list somewhere isn't required, I think some places use the term "registered disabled" to say that some evidence may be required.

Voice0fReason · 10/01/2024 11:12

hohohowheniscmascoming · 09/01/2024 21:15

It's annoying that some tourist type places say that you can have eg a carer ticket for free if you are "registered" disabled. How are you meant to prove it??

If your needs are such that you need a carer then you should have access to some evidence of your disability. For most people, that would be a PIP claim.
Medical evidence is also an option. A Blue Badge or local authority registration are other options.

I WANT tourist type places to require people to provide evidence. Systems get abused when they don't.

forcedfun · 10/01/2024 11:16

Voice0fReason · 10/01/2024 11:07

I agree that you ARE disabled (as am I)
You are able to evidence that.
So you have protection under the Equality Act because you have that evidence.

Someone who self-identifies as disabled may not have the same legal protection because they don't have any evidence of a disability.

I agree that being registered on a list somewhere isn't required, I think some places use the term "registered disabled" to say that some evidence may be required.

But it's clunky terminology because it implies there is a register somewhere.

Hence why I changed all the policies I get to comment on to remove the term "registered".

Voice0fReason · 10/01/2024 11:17

XenoBitch · 09/01/2024 22:29

YANBU it is annoying. What is this register, and how do you get on it?
The only register I am aware of is that for blind people.

My best friend has a Blue Badge (so considered disabled by her local council), is unable to work, yet was turned down for PIP.

Then she needs to re-apply with support from an organisation that knows how to make a claim. If she qualifies for a Blue Badge, then she must have provided evidence to support that claim, so she should meet the criteria for standard rate mobility at least.

Mrsjayy · 10/01/2024 12:18

fwiw @XenoBitch blue badge holders can usually get concession rates you just need a photo of the badge photo side up obviously so you can pass that onto your friend.

PeppermintParty · 10/01/2024 12:45

hohohowheniscmascoming · 09/01/2024 21:15

It's annoying that some tourist type places say that you can have eg a carer ticket for free if you are "registered" disabled. How are you meant to prove it??

When I visited a Merlin attraction, I studied their website and applied for an Access card.

https://app.accesscard.online/apply/access-card/

I had to prove my specific limitations, such as standing or walking or use of a wheelchair, but this was easy for me to prove, as I have numerous letters from consultants that cover all the difficulties I have.

Access Card - application form

App for Access Card - accesscard.org.uk

https://app.accesscard.online/apply/access-card

Pixiedust1234 · 10/01/2024 13:20

Is that Access card legally binding and/or widely accepted though? I remember being stung by the Citizenship card being touted as a ID card by councils and government instead of getting driving or passport, paying for it, and my DD still being refused. Not one company accepted it, from banks to pub bouncers. Absolute waste of money.

TigerRag · 10/01/2024 13:26

They're not. I've been asked for a copy of my PIP award or certificate of visual impairment

sondot · 10/01/2024 13:38

Pixiedust1234 · 10/01/2024 13:20

Is that Access card legally binding and/or widely accepted though? I remember being stung by the Citizenship card being touted as a ID card by councils and government instead of getting driving or passport, paying for it, and my DD still being refused. Not one company accepted it, from banks to pub bouncers. Absolute waste of money.

Plenty of places haven't even heard of it. Sure lots of big organisations have but it's just another gimmick by a private company to exploit disabled people.

PeppermintParty · 10/01/2024 13:40

I don't recall having to pay anything for the Access card, so not sure how it is exploitation.

Not sure how widely accepted it is.

sondot · 10/01/2024 13:41

PeppermintParty · 10/01/2024 13:40

I don't recall having to pay anything for the Access card, so not sure how it is exploitation.

Not sure how widely accepted it is.

Edited

They cost £15.

PeppermintParty · 10/01/2024 13:47

sondot · 10/01/2024 13:41

They cost £15.

I've just been googling and I see it says that, but I'm pretty sure I didn't have to pay when I followed the link from the Merlin website. I'm sure I would remember as if I had been asked to pay, I would have been fuming. I will check my bank account however.

Short of someone applying, I don't think there is a way to prove it. (I'm not going to fill out the application again. 😂

ETA - just checked my bank account and I didn't pay for it.

gloriawasright · 10/01/2024 13:49

x2boys · 09/01/2024 06:33

Its annoying but sometimes it can be difficult enough to prove disability
Maybe some people who.are in receipt of PIP feel that validate,s there disability?
Both my boys have disabilities my oldest was diagnosed with Diabetes last year but he wouldn't be eligible for pip despite it being s life long life changing condition.
And my youngest has severe autism and learning disabilities and he is in receipt of DLA at the highest levels

How old is your ds with diabeties?
You can get pip for someone with diabetes if they need help.
Monitoring,calculating carbs,supervising injections and arranging for prescriptions all count as help.
Not just for children with diabeties but for adult too who may struggle with their own treatment.

sondot · 10/01/2024 13:53

@PeppermintParty

That's right you can do a part thing through the site for some organisations but the full card cost is £15

sondot · 10/01/2024 13:55

Posted too soon, what you are talking about it a feee pass done through access not the access card which does cost £15 and it absolutely exploiting disabled people.

Pixiedust1234 · 10/01/2024 14:10

Thanks @sondot that was my fear, especially after the citizenship card.

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