In the past I have opened up to my partner about my past experiences in relationships. And when I least expected it he threw it back in my face. Now I have been open and honest about a lot of things abuse, trauma etc. but I feel like he can't help me through everything. So there are some things I have kept to myself.
Because of certain things I have said to him he is not a big fan of my mom. I don't want what I'm telling him about what I went through as a child to make him not care for my mom. A lot of things I went through as a child, pre teen, teen, young adult it's embarrassing.
We were talking and I explained to him I will be finding a therapist this year. It's something's I've thought about for years. First he is not big on therapy a lot of people aren't but what bothered me is the fact that he got upset bc I said I feel like It's some things I need to talk about with a therapist.
He went to saying that now he think he doesn't know me and I'm explaining to him you can't help me through everything and I can't either. He ended up hanging up in my face ... ok. I have not been dishonest about anything. But now I left thinking am I crazy???
Trauma dumping on folks is not ok especially when people have their own problems to deal with. Regardless of being in a relationship or not like I explained to him he's not a therapist. Nor am I and I can't help him with his trauma and he can't help with mine. He's very opinionated and that's ok but I'm not going to react like he does to everything.