I met a guy at a wedding 4 months ago. Have been seeing him ever since. I would say we have taken it pretty slow but we do message/voice note every day but only see each other once a week as I have kids, full on job etc and he has dogs and full on job.
About 2 months into seeing him I perhaps came across a little strongly. I was starting to like him and showed him this. We had a chat and he told me he was just looking for something casual (although he said serious at the start). So I thought about it, I thought the sex is good, his company is good, I don't mind him coming over when the kids are at their dads and having some wine and dinner and good sex and leaving it at that whilst I can actively date others. So we agreed to that. All good.
At that point I distanced myself a bit just to protect my own emotions. Still been in contact daily, still meeting up but I just pulled back a little. Kept a bit more of myself up myself, not as much cuddling as there was, just concentrating on me, my kids and my job again without much thought put in to him.
He has now completely changed his tune wherein he seems to be coming across very keen again, getting jealous and asking if I'm seeing other men, texting much more, asking me to go out for dinners (before this is was strictly drinks and food in the house other than our first few dates), telling his family about me. The problem now is, I'm not interested in him like that. In fact the past few weeks I've been struggling to even view him in a sexual light anymore and I'm not sure if it's because there is no emotional connection for me there anymore.
It's a shame because I did like him but he wasn't interested and now he is, I'm not. What is this behaviour about? AIBU to be confused?