Long story short, 10 years ago I was in a dark place, living with a horrible abusive man and had a drinking problem. This man had a stepdaughter who was a very broken but resilient and lovely girl. We bonded, I bought her tampons and gave her clothes and cooked for her but ultimately I bailed on her because for my safety and the benefit of my own child we bailed and I started a new life I couldn’t Take her with me and she was almost an adult anyway. My life is good now, we have a lovely home and a nice life. I’ve thought about her almost every day though. This girl has recently got In touch via social media and has done so well with her life, really stable family and nice kids. She says that I was a big inspiration for her and my kindness in those dark times really helped her. What I saw as a failure to her by disappearing she still saw as a benefit to her life because I was kind and taught her things. Anyway, the man involved has been dead a few years and this young lady had defied the odds and become a really fantastic mum and sorted her life out, I’ve since then got my degrees and achieved a career I never thought possible.. We’ve been chatting online and I feel inclined to get back in touch properly. I’m so proud of her and who she’s become.my instincts tell me to invite her over and reconnect properly. I’m nervous though. Any wisdom?