My son (ADHD/ASD) struggles to cope in today's modern society.
Let's rewind to when I was in school in the 80's. Cane behind the board to basically ensure you sat still and listened, big walk of over 1 mile each way to school and back each day with all of your friends, so plenty of exercise and lots of time to destress , longer playtimes, more playtimes (break morning and afternoon), proper dinner hour, lots of art, lots of music, lots of sports. Actually FUN LEARNING IN SCHOOL - project work, preparing for school plays, learning the recorder.
Honestly. I listen /see how his school day is now and i think I wouldn't have coped at all. Not one bit. Yet, I was able to blend in back in the 80's. Also said I talked too much but so many opportunities to simply move.
Now it's just work work work and it's bloody boring. So kids with ADHD simply cannot cope. Far too much work too young too soon. Pressure to meet ARE all the time, SATS always looming. Kids aren't allowed to just 'be' anymore.
Then after school we all played out. On the streets, bikes, go carts, climbing trees - again, movement. Now nobody plays out. My son only has his switch (where his friends are online) and otherwise I'm driving around taking him to lots of 'planned' hobbies.
Modern life is simply shit for developing bodies and minds, lets be honest.