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Opting out of NHS pension

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Tabl · 06/01/2024 13:59

Im early 30s single mother. At the end of the month I have no money left, better than being on minus I suppose. Im thinking of opting out of pension (£350 a month) to live a little. Would take my LO to do some travelling, days out etc.
I would do it maybe for a year or two. I feel like Im not living but just existing. Anybody else has done it?

OP posts:
Dacadactyl · 06/01/2024 16:36

All those saying it's just for a year or two...you run the risk of never going back intl the scheme because you flex to your salary.

Don't do it OP. Someone I know sold their house to go into rented for 2 years....20 years later they're still in rented.

alltootired · 06/01/2024 16:36

I have seen too many friends die before retirement.
It is a balance.
If you have some money - some in pension and some for fun.
If you are living hand to mouth then enjoy today and prioritise fun.

PosiePerkinPootleFlump · 06/01/2024 16:38

CinnamonCoffee · 06/01/2024 15:16

Nope not misunderstanding. Annual pension currently is £1606 after 10.5 years working both full and part time as a band 5

I'm in no way financially inclined but a quick google places teachers, police, armed forces and civil servants as being the best for pension schemes.

Band 5 is £28k. So one year of full time working is £519 pension, and 3 years of working would be £1558. Unless you have been both very part time and on a much lower salary for much of your 10 years I don't see how it can be so low.

FrownedUpon · 06/01/2024 16:41

It’s very short sighted to opt out of a pension like yours for extra spending money. It’s one of the reasons why less well off people often remain that way.

While you’re having fun days out, your colleagues will be accumulating excellent pensions, perhaps enabling them to retire early. You’ll end up working into old age because you can’t afford to retire.

PosiePerkinPootleFlump · 06/01/2024 16:43

ShoePalaver · 06/01/2024 16:17

University is better- they contribute 18% of salary before tax.

Most private employers contribute 3%.

If NHS is 12% it's better than most places.

You need to be clear on what is Defined Benefit and what is defined contribution though.

For a DB scheme what the employer contributes is largely irrelevant - it's how much pension per year as proportion of your salary you build up that matters.

For the latest university scheme that is 1/75. Not bad at all but nowhere near as good as 1/54 in the NHS. Local government is 1/49.

Most private sector is a contribution to a dc scheme

alltootired · 06/01/2024 16:43

@FrownedUpon Low paid staff do not get enough pension to retire early. It is to top up state pension.
Living with no fun money is bloody miserable. You will not do it.

CinnamonCoffee · 06/01/2024 16:46

@PosiePerkinPootleFlump about 50/50. Worked full time for about 5 years and 16 hours the rest. (Childcare)
I'm part of the 2008 scheme too and believe that adds another £500 PA.

Themountainwithsnowonit · 06/01/2024 16:48

PosiePerkinPootleFlump · 06/01/2024 16:38

Band 5 is £28k. So one year of full time working is £519 pension, and 3 years of working would be £1558. Unless you have been both very part time and on a much lower salary for much of your 10 years I don't see how it can be so low.

Band 5 goes up to £34581

Pootle23 · 06/01/2024 17:02

Personally I wouldn’t, but now I’m I my fifties and believe me it’s a surprise how quickly that happens! Seems like yesterday that I was in my thirties, and to be heading towards retirement with no private pension would scare me, the state pension will not exactly give you a rich retirement. You could find the difference of not having your NHS pension means you can’t afford to put the heating on…is that the retirement you want?

I suggest you sit down and write an honest budget. Is the father of your child contributing? Are you getting all benefits you may be entitled to? I don’t mean tell us on this forum, I mean check it all out, there are benefit calculators online to use and check.

ColleenDonaghy · 06/01/2024 17:06

alltootired · 06/01/2024 16:22

You have to enjoy your actual life here and now. You could die before you reach retirement age.

If you die before retirement in a DB scheme your beneficiaries will typically receive a lump sum that is a multiple (usually three) of your salary at death. Then they can typically also receive a pension that is based on your salary at date of death, assuming you worked until your retirement date.

The possibility of death before retirement is one of the strongest arguments for remaining in the scheme.

CinnamonCoffee · 06/01/2024 17:22

Incase anyone didn't know that unless married you have to opt in for the death in service benefit.

SauvignonBlanche · 06/01/2024 17:28

One of my direct reports opted out when she had her second DC.
She bitterly regrets it, especially as her peers began to reduce hours/roles once they could.
She’s 58, knackered and has just had a cancer diagnosis. I’m sure she wishes she could turn the clock back as she was in the 1995 scheme so could have gone at 55.

Wearegoingtoneedabiggerboat · 06/01/2024 17:44

all the people that I know who have opted out have regretted it massively. Don’t do it.

Abitlosttoday · 06/01/2024 17:52

isthewashingdryyet · 06/01/2024 14:01

Please don’t, it is solid gold and one of the best there is. You will never opt back in and your future self will never forgive you

there is always a a way to find free things to do, that don’t compromise your future

and the drop in National Insurance this month will mean you have more money at the end of this month

Going against the grain here... it's not ideal to opt out at all. However, I have an NHS pension and I opted out for one year when my first child was tiny and we were saving for a home. Then I opted back in as a priority. It is allowed and you can do it! If you're considered about it, it could be the right short-term choice for you and your family.

Goodlard · 06/01/2024 17:58

CinnamonCoffee · 06/01/2024 17:22

Incase anyone didn't know that unless married you have to opt in for the death in service benefit.

This isn't true

mottytotty · 06/01/2024 17:59

GeneCity · 06/01/2024 16:24

NHS employer contribution is 20.6% in total.

Someone else said 12% and someone else said 13.5%.

Can anyone confirm what it is? Or does it vary?

EmmaEmerald · 06/01/2024 18:00

Dacadactyl · 06/01/2024 16:36

All those saying it's just for a year or two...you run the risk of never going back intl the scheme because you flex to your salary.

Don't do it OP. Someone I know sold their house to go into rented for 2 years....20 years later they're still in rented.

Apples and oranges, surely?

Zanatdy · 06/01/2024 18:01

You’d be crazy too. I’ve got a civil service pension and the only person I know to opt out stands to inherit over a million pounds

isthewashingdryyet · 06/01/2024 18:03

mottytotty · 06/01/2024 17:59

Someone else said 12% and someone else said 13.5%.

Can anyone confirm what it is? Or does it vary?

It doesn’t matter, what matters is the 1/54 th of you salary that is added.

and another poster asked how to know what her pension was currently predicted to be, I think you can look this up on ESR, under Total Rewards section

CinnamonCoffee · 06/01/2024 18:06

@Goodlard it's 100% true in my trust at least. Perhaps different parts of the UK have different rules? I'm not in England.

Brandyginger · 06/01/2024 18:07

@mottytotty it varies, I’m on a weird contract. What I do know is that it’s very favourable compared to my 3% employer contribution that I used to get in the private sector.

mottytotty · 06/01/2024 18:07

isthewashingdryyet · 06/01/2024 18:03

It doesn’t matter, what matters is the 1/54 th of you salary that is added.

and another poster asked how to know what her pension was currently predicted to be, I think you can look this up on ESR, under Total Rewards section

Is that just the NHS contribution, 1/54? And that the employee contribution is separate?

Zanatdy · 06/01/2024 18:08

And yes as another posted said, death in service is generally 3 x your salary and this won’t be payable if you opt out. God forbid it would happen but you’d be denying your daughter / her carers a lump sum to care for her in exchange for some days out.

Dacadactyl · 06/01/2024 18:08

EmmaEmerald · 06/01/2024 18:00

Apples and oranges, surely?

I don't agree. My point is that something always comes up, particularly once youve had children. Retirement seems far off and once you're used to the money in your pocket you may very well not go back into the scheme.

And then bam, you're 65 with no hope of retiring imminently.

mottytotty · 06/01/2024 18:09

Brandyginger · 06/01/2024 18:07

@mottytotty it varies, I’m on a weird contract. What I do know is that it’s very favourable compared to my 3% employer contribution that I used to get in the private sector.

Thanks, what is their contribution in your case? A rough view would be useful, I realise it may be confidential.