Dh and I have been together 7 years, married 4. We have my teen from previous relationship and one toddler together.
Life is very tough at the moment. We have no help with the toddler so we rarely get the opportunity to do anything together. Dh supports me to go out with friends, classes, gym and so on but he's quite unsociable and rarely wants to do anything himself.
We both wfh so we are together a lot. I've started going back into the office more to give us some space from each other. He has no interest in being around other people.
Life is just one long cycle of work, nursery pick up, clubs for older one, meals, bed, rinse repeat. We still love each other and have a laugh but there is no fun or leisure time and dh is often moody and snappy. Sex is maybe 1-2 times a month due to life commitments and being knackered. I just feel like somewhere along the way we have both stopped making the effort and aren't particularly nice to one another, we just live and parent together.
What can we do to turn this around before it's too late?