My exh has quit his job and the combination of this and the fact he has the kids EOW means he doesn't have to pay any maintenance.
There is quite a lot of backstory on this and history of him being inconsistent with majntenance and contact. I am finding this plus his attitude towards the kids - they come last on his priority list - really difficult to accept. the youngest is in y1 so I will have to deal with this for quite some time yet.
I can feel myself becoming bitter, cross, resentful. I don't want to be this person. Does anyone else struggle with this. I know I just need to accept it because it's not going to change. It just seems to be my instinct to expect more from him than I am disappointed.