Our friend group consists of two gay males (this is important because if I told this as a story it just sounds like the guy fancies me, which isn't the case lol) and two women.
We have all known each other since 11.
For as long as I can remember I have been an emotional punch bag to one of these guys. If someone else upsets him he is very nasty to me. Ive always put it down to being a safe space for him to lash out but ive recently been having some therapy and im starting to not be ok with it.
He did this last month again when we were all having a laugh at some pictures and someone wouldn't remove one he didnt like from face book (we are 38) im finding this so ridiculous as im typing it out. So he gets annoyed about something then aims it at me, goads me into a row then blocks me, then a few days later apologises and its back to normal.
Last week other female friend puts on the group about coming up to mine (we always meet at mine) she moved away, other male friend lives in USA and he lives at home
I say yes 27th is fine, he says im working.
She says ok we can do another day all of us together as well.
She comes to mine on 27th.
I'm throwing a new years eve party tonight and I said oh other friend helped me pick up some bits the other day. He went mental saying I can't believe you met up without me (i do plenty of things alone with him) saying hes not coming tonight as our friendship doesnt feel the same. Insulting me down the phone. I said he was invited? He was at work? He said that means we shouldn't have met amd waited.
Hes said he needs a break from the group and left the chat.
Im done being treated like I do everything wrong. Aibu if I cut him out and dont let him back in two days when hes over his tantrum.